I tend to only be verbally abusive and sometimes a little too physically aggressive. Weighing a total of 105 lbs I know I really couldn't hurt a guy. My last boyfriend I dumped. He didn't leave me but I feel like he should have because I couldn't stop treating him like ****.
2006-11-05 04:27:17 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are seeing this as an ongoing issue in your life, seek out some counseling on anger management.
2006-11-05 04:29:00 · answer #1 · answered by mrebholz72 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Counseling, therapy, anger management. You have made the hardest step. admitting there is a problem. AND you have already begun the journey to fixing it, you identified the problem. Now you need the help of a professional in the field. This most likely is learned behavior, mom was very dominant and so was grandma and so on. you seek out submissive men and then belittle them for being submissive. Its all about control. It will wear you out eventually. Or maybe a broken home and an alcoholic mother. you were forced to grow up too fast and take care of your family. (just a guess of course)
Either way, its not your fault, and I wish you the best of luck on your journey to happiness. You have taken the first two steps, keep walking. The journey is the hard part. The destination is great.
2006-11-05 04:40:36 · answer #2 · answered by cwxmas 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some form of anger control counselling may help you treat others with the respect they derserve. Saddest part is that right now you are the abuser but a girl your age sooner or later will met a fella who isn't going to put up with this and you may end up on the wrong end of the stick as far as being abused goes. Try and treat others with the respect they derserve or you could find yourself lonely also.
2006-11-05 04:32:15 · answer #3 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some help and now. Later in marriage it will lead to real issues. Abuse man to women and vise versa is wrong.
One day your temper and lack of control will land you in jail. Domestic abuse laws are different all over. Once the cops get the call, show up and identify that it has happened they (is some states) must arrest and charge.
You don't want to be that person on Cops getting shoved in the back of the cruiser. Not to mention, would you put up with your spouse/BF treating you like that.
Start to be respective and treat him like you want to be treated. We all say and do things that are not nice and hurtful. Difference is when you do it without thinking and continue the behavior.
2006-11-05 04:32:31 · answer #4 · answered by SRC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
each and every individual and all of us has the capacity and/or threat to alter for the greater suitable, so do no longer initiate off thinking that is going to take some style of miracle to make it take place.have faith in your self and in case you relatively, relatively from the backside of your coronary heart prefer to alter then you certainly will take each and every of the mandatory steps to attain that. Do regardless of it takes, do no longer low value any concepts, regardless of in the event that they sound a techniques fetched, no longer each and every attitude will take a seat nicely with you, yet easily take what information and suggestions which you may use far flung from such supplies. you're 0.5 way there via admitting which you have had a situation or maybe greater suitable off for desirous to alter that, understand although- it relatively is going to be complicated artwork and extremely confronting, Be good!! My truthful maximum suitable needs to you-all of us merits a threat to spectacular their blunders.
2016-10-15 10:01:16 · answer #5 · answered by patient 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, good for you for recognizing that there is a problem there. Have you tried working with a therapist? It might be some leftover baggage from childhood or a former relationship.
2006-11-05 04:29:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well well well the tides have turned.... I think you should calm down and quit thinking about your past so much that you apply it to certain situations with these innocent guys who have nothing to do with your messed up life.......
2006-11-05 04:33:15 · answer #7 · answered by No 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get anger management. It really does help. Alot of people go thru this.
2006-11-05 04:28:46 · answer #8 · answered by my3sweetties 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think and believe there is no one who can change your character, but there is someone who can do it. This person can totally change that your abusive habit and you will you will be able to humble yourself. This person I am talking of is our Saviour and Lord Jesus Christ. He is at the door of your heart ready to change your character. Will you let Him in?
God bless you as you do so.
2006-11-05 04:41:08 · answer #9 · answered by patrick w 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Go to counsel ling
2006-11-05 04:28:44 · answer #10 · answered by wblueyesinvt35 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋