hey frnds iam in a relationship with a guy from canada,toronto ontario,i had never been to canada and hv no one known thr iam from india.its been 5 months thr is no response from him and he told me tht he is doctor (cardio vascular surgeon)but recently i hv come to knw tht he is nt a doctor and tht he is already married.but i want to confirm this tht how far is this true so plsss help me with some good detective agents in ontario plssss i have his photographs taken with me and i knw his phone numbers but the address given by him is fake.ias i hv no one thr my frnd here told me tht detective agencies do background check like pre marriage info pllls help.or help me with if any other way to find him i dont want to place complaint or do any such things whr my family name get spoiled and nt before confirming the fact.
2006-11-05 04:06:59 · 10 answers · asked by bubbly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
You need to walk away from this situation. Why in the world do you want to find him? What would you say if he was in front of your right now? Is it just that it is unresolved and you did not get to confront him? It is obvious that he was an on line predator. He lied because he was living a fantasy and unfortunately you were his victim. Here is a suggestion to get rid of the hurt you feel about not being able to confront him. Write him a letter (no, you will not mail the letter). In this letter state all of the things that you would want to say to him. Tell him exactly how this made you feel. Yell at him. Tell him what a rotten person he is. Sign it. Now put it away somewhere or throw it in the trash. You just need to get this unresolved conflict out of your system. Now move on. Do not get involved with older men that you meet on the internet. Find a nice safe environment to meet people. Try local church groups, the YMCA, or if you are in school go to school sponsered after school activities like sports events, chess club or something. Join a theatrical group and be an actress in a play, paint scenery or make costumes. For goodness sake do not let this man take away your self esteem. You do not need to waste time on finding someone who can only do you harm. Please move on. Brightest Blessings to you.
2006-11-05 04:20:22 · answer #1 · answered by Xandejo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know about you but if I were you, I wouldn't bother spending money to hire a detective to know more about him or find him. why dont you move on and find someone else that you can see everyday?
I really don't see what can a liar do in terms of your love life. Dont throw your life away, someone real out there is waiting for someone like you while you are busy chasing a lie. I hope you didn't send him any money!
You can't place a complaint anyway since aside from lying to you, he hasn't harmed you financially, phsycologically or physically. Show your family or anyone that knows what happened to you, that you are capable of handling this and you can do what is best for your future.
2006-11-05 07:29:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are looking for someone to say go ahead and stay with the guy- I think you may have a hard time with that. The reasons for you not marrying are there in your question, such as not talking to him for 5 months and his lying. If you truly want to marry, I would suggest waiting for the guy who really wants to be with you back. If he is lying to you BEFORE you get married- what do you think he will do once you are married?
If you still think you want to marry this man, i would try and ge tin contact with him, if there is no response, there wont be a wedding. But honestly, like i said, if he is this honest before, how is life going to be after?
2006-11-05 08:39:17 · answer #3 · answered by glorymomof3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-22 01:06:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could contact the Ontario College of Physicians and Surgeons to see if he is on their roll.
2006-11-05 08:57:02 · answer #5 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is the question? are you married to him? did you meet him on the Internet?have you ever meet him in person? How can you be in a relationship ? Has he promised you anything? You should not be trying to investigate him unless you have married him
2006-11-05 04:27:54 · answer #6 · answered by wblueyesinvt35 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you want my advice I say move on... Most likely you meet him on the Internet "most people lie on the Internet" So I say Good luck to you move on you can do better!
2006-11-05 04:14:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like a real jerk you should just cut off all communication with him go find an honest guy who actually cares about you....
2006-11-05 04:16:04 · answer #8 · answered by laloookava774 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's time to find someone else. Don't waste your time with this loser.
2006-11-05 04:18:08 · answer #9 · answered by Sara Lee 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
oviously you were his jump off....you should leave this alone and move on....it is not worth it....he doesnt want you
2006-11-05 04:15:12 · answer #10 · answered by DaHBIC 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋