Well, I think a girl would probably like a guy to let her feel his love for her gradually than to just blatantly say out to her that he likes her. that'll just probably freak her (unless you're really handsome, or she likes you too). if he were to say it... he might like to say it in a jokingly way at first and maybe sometimes later...to say it in a more serious tone. for me, i'll prefer him to say it in a funny way and i can still remember a time when a guy asked me "what is aishiteru?" and i replied "i love you" and he said "ya..me too". i totatally fell in love for him cos he's just toooooo humourous and cheeky =D. well, just a simple "can i sms / email you sometime around?" will enable you to get her hp no. or email add without giving lame excuses and beating around the bush. and arh well..about the talking in private..i know how girls usually stick with their frens outside when guys who like them is around...you'd just have to find an opportunity when she's alone to talk to her..or you can just talk to her in a "i want to talk to you in private" way, by keep looking at her friends awkwardly so she'll know .
2006-11-05 04:00:57
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answered by misseighteen 3
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It depends on the girl's personality. If a girl is shy, then a guy needs to move slowly and show her how he feels. If he comes up to a shy girl and just professes his attraction to her, she may feel he's making fun of her and run. If she's outgoing and constantly surrounded by friends and guys who like her, by all means, a guy needs to tell her directly. He may not get the chance if he tries to show her with his actions.
To ask for her e-mail and phone number, hand her a note marked "for your eyes only" or drop it into her locker. Give your phone number and e-mail address and say only that you need to talk to her privately about something important. Don't say anything more. (Curiosity gets people to respond.) Good luck!
2006-11-05 03:47:49
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answered by Avie 7
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If she is with friends, ask her if you can talk to her. If she says yes, move away from the group. This will let her know that you want to talk privately. Then ask her if it would be okay if you called her sometime or email her; she can only say yes or no. Remember if you do the email thing, don't write anything that you would not want other people to see. Good luck.
2006-11-05 03:49:10
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answered by candace b 7
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Personally, I liked a guy that would flirt with me for a while and then privately send me a note or ask me for my number cause you would like to hang out one day. Say it non chalantly. Keep her wondering if you like her as a friend or more. Then when you talk to her on the phone a couple of times ask her to go out with you one day. Dont be straight forward right away! You might scare her away!
2006-11-05 03:43:35
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answered by ElizabethT. 1
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well i cant really understand you but if you want just pass her a note saying whats your phone number...thats knocks out 2 birds with one stone...it shows our interested and you get the phone number and you can talk to hr in private. then while on the phone you can ask about like AIM or MSN or email or myspace. its all good brother.
2006-11-05 03:42:20
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answered by englefontingle 2
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Be yourself, be direct. The best way to start a real relationship is to really be you.
Say "Hello, I love you, tell me your name".... It's in a Doors song. Just ask for her email and phone number after you get to know her, not before that.
It worked for my man to me. I love the heck outta him but I didn't even pay attention to him in school until he was direct like this. Then I wanted to get to know him more.
2006-11-05 03:44:32
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answered by Bard's Babe 3
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Just ask her if she fancies going out for a drink sometime. If she says yes, she's interested and she'll give you her phone number so you can get it touch about going out. If she says no, at least you tried and even if she only likes you as a mate she'll be flattered to have been asked out.
2006-11-05 03:59:41
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answered by Les 3
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Yes, girls like it if you tell them you like them. Sometimes, they like you too but are just to shy to say anything. When you tell her, respect her answer. Once you know, then you can decide if it's right to ask her for her email and phone number. Just be honest with her.
2006-11-05 03:45:51
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answered by Anonymous
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Even if she is with her friends, write your email address, and phone number on paper, and slip it to her, say give me a call. Now when she does call, say are you going to give me your email info? And it is okay to say, I would like to get to know you better. take things slow, so you can get to know each other better. And keep concentrating on school!
2006-11-05 03:46:17
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answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6
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yes we love to be complimented but do it really gently dont put any pressure on her and tell her when you are face to face alone then its really romantic, hold her while you say it, hug her let her know you are there and always will be.a better word than like is love btw
girls want boys to make the first move, if shes secretly shy or is really nice to you then she probably likes you.
if you tell her you like her then shell probably ask YOU for your email and number but if you havent told her you like her just ask for it casually like 'can i have your email pls, and number and remember to SMILE' girls like smiley guys.
if you want to tlk to her in private and shes with her friends say quietly 'can i tell you something,' or' talk to me, over here' remember to say it gently and to smile and HAE NICE BREATH before whispering, for goodness sake. im a 14 year old girl and THIS is the sort of thing we like, remember to keep the mystery to you but no cliffhangers, REASSURE US we love it
2006-11-05 03:50:14
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answered by Anonymous
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