okay. I am 14 years old. And my bobs are. well. nothing becasue i don't have any! I usd to be fine wiht the fact that I didn't have a 'perfect' body, i was happy that I had a butt, and that was fine, I didn't have to have boobs. But now, That Im in 8th grade and theres all these guys [and girl] judging you, its really pissing me off! I get called 'flat chested' and 'mosquito bite ****' and all kinds off cruel things, and It's really starting to piss me the **** off. I want big boons. I have considered surgery. But not at this age. When I'm older. Unless, There is somewayto get bigger boobs wihtout it, like eating a certain kind of food, or doing certain excercises. or something?!?!
Oh, and I have 'started'.. and I thought that once you did you were supposed to start 'developing' and stuff. But I havent, and I was actualyl looking forward ot starting my pereiod, but, nothing has happened, I still look like a have an 11 year old body, well. i mean, and 11 year old's chest anyway.
2006-11-05 02:57:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body ➔ Other - Skin & Body
I have friends with your problem. (I'm 14, too.) Don't freak out. Honestly, people that make fun of you need to piss off. I mean, grow up people. Please. They're obviously just immature.
Big boobs definitely attract guys, no doubt. But do you honestly want boys to like you for your boobs? I hope not. Guys like that definitely aren't worth your time. ****, maybe your size can help weed out the stupid guys. that would definitely come in handy sometimes, right?
Also keep in mind -- girls with bigger boobs probably are bigger everywhere else, too. So they probably wish they could be skinner, even if it means having smaller boobs. Nobody's perfect. When your boobs do get bigger, you'll just wish something else was different about you.
My final answer - no excercises or pills will help. Surgery's stupid. You need to get some more self-confidence and accept yourself for who you are. [=
2006-11-05 06:42:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the exact same position, except 13 (but in 8th grade), and I haven't started yet, even though I've had my growth spurt (grew 5 inches and gained 30 lbs in a year), and it sucks. And they don't even make push up/padded bras for people w/ 30 AA boobs (although there are bras for all sizes at figleaves.com). There is an excercise that helps pronounce the muscles around (makes it stick out more), sort of like the chicken dance. And I think bananas are supposed to help. And when you're fat you have bigger boobs. lol.
But there isn't really anything to do. Although I read somewhere that boobs stop growing at age 18, so there is still time.
good luck (and if you find the magic solution, please tell me)
But I don't think that
2006-11-05 03:21:16 · answer #2 · answered by Ashley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh sweetheart I really do sympathise with you. However, you are only 14 yrs and you won't always feel inadequate just because your boobs are'nt as big as some other girls. You can do exercises but all they do is strengthen the muscles supporting the breasts, they don't actually enlarge the breast size itself. If you really feel down about it, have you tried buying some breast enhancers (chicken fillets)? They sit inside your bra and really do give you a cleavage. You can also dress to draw the eye away from the boobs thereby making more of the assets you do have.
A word of warning: If you want big boobs to attract the lads then trust me, they aint the sort of lads you want to attract.
2006-11-05 03:05:39 · answer #3 · answered by Sue S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow. Well, I know you might feel REALLY pressured, but you have to be patient. I know it sounds REALLY hard, but it's the only thing you can do. You just have to wait. I'm in 8th grade too and some of my friends are flat, and they whine about it, but they're fine with the fact that they have to wait. It might take a while, so you have to be very patient. I don't have big boobs either, I'm barely an a cup, but I just have to deal with the fact that it takes a while.
Good luck.
2006-11-05 03:04:08 · answer #4 · answered by beliieve 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them all to shove it. Seriously. I am a 34A or B when not nursing a baby. My 12 year old has almost as much as I do already LOL I have friends who had C and D cups by 14, and they HATE them because they are heavy and hurt their backs, shoulders, necks.. One of them is an I cup and her mother was too. She died of breast cancer in her early 40's because there was so much breast tissue it was found very late :(
2006-11-05 03:04:28 · answer #5 · answered by Just Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to victoriassecret.com they have push up bras and push up shapers. They are pretty expensive but they really work! * i think there might also be some in fine dress stores like dillards yonkers and jcpenny look around when you go shopping at the mall or what ever to look for the best price. hopes this helps you!
2006-11-05 03:06:21 · answer #6 · answered by a93 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
10 years from now you will have a slim sexy figure and the girls with boobs now will be fat. when they give you a hard time remember it. better then walking around with saline bags stuck to your chest. You are perfect the way you are. :)
2006-11-05 03:08:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I could trade places with you. I'm practically a D and they're in my way.
2006-11-05 06:23:51 · answer #8 · answered by pegasus_1174 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
corn, thats been an opld saying corn for the chest.
2006-11-05 04:38:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to victoriasecret.com and you can get a push up bra.
2006-11-05 04:21:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋