Hello, again?

Question

Hello, everyone?

I need your help for me to build up the courage to tell my mom about my brother doing stuff to me last night.
I'm not exactly sure of what to say. I am so embarrassed.
But last night my brother was in the living room and I came in from going out with my friends to the movies it was probably about 9pm.
My brother was there on the couch like he was waiting for me. And it was really dark. I asked him what was he doing in the dark and where mom was. He came up to and said she left to go and pick my sister up from grandma's.
So I kind of freaked out knowing of what might be in his mind [from past expiriences]
He then started telling me stuff about how I know that I want him, and that I'm denying it when I say it's sick.
He then confessed to me that he did indeed suck my on breasts the other night. And says that he also tried fondling my clitorus. And that I'm a real heavy sleeper.

IM VERY TERRIFIED OF MY BROTHER. I WANT TO RUN AWAY. HES A MONSTER.

Answer 1

Just tell her, and don't be embarrassed about it. Hopefully she will believe you. Some mothers don't.

Answer 2

Tell your Mom now! Both you and your brother need help. I do not know anything about your family situation. But if Mom tries to not listen or simply do nothing , tell her you're going to tell at school. Buy some pepper spray to protect yourself and tell your Mom you want both locks on your bedroom door and the bathroom door. Have her call your brother so that the three of you can talk and then you can be sure she has addressed this with your brother. Don't run away. Tell your Mom you can NEVER be alone with him. Find out what you Mom is going to do for your brother. Definitely counseling and a psychologist. Seek help also from your church. If your Mom won't do anything about this, you will have to leave home. Your church can help! There are always families willing to take you in. Don't go to the street. Pray for Jesus to hep you.

Answer 3

If you dont feel comfortable telling your mum for whatever reason tell someone who is close to you and your mum and then they will help you deal with this and your mum.

I understand this must be very scary for you and it must be hard knowing what to do as you probably think that your mum will not believe you but you need to try, if she doesn't believe you then go to the police or a friend.

Dont leave this, if you do he will continue to do this to you and god knows who else, its alot to deal with but you will be strong and do what you think is right, brother or not what he did was wrong and he needs to be stopped. If you need to talk then email me on [e-mail], im here for you x

Answer 4

Listen girl! U need to tell someone! Thats the only way u will ever be able to put an end to it or sort it out! Speak to your mom, get some evidence first if u feel that u wont be believed! Speak to a teacher, friend someone that u mention this to will help you! But be wise and smart! hang in there girl, u will make it through it.

Answer 5

Ok this is RED FLAG CITY. What he did was not ok it was rape. First off he needs to know that; second you need to report his behavior. You should report it to a professional either a licensed therapist, police officer or/and if you’re a child, to child protective services. Get your parents on track with this issue and if they are not on board they could also be in huge trouble. Your not alone actually sibling’s abuse of sister is rather high. This is nothing less than sexual assault. Don’t stand for it being your fault or the way you dress or behave that is a shame tactic, I consider immediate action on this one.

If you’re over the age of 18 there are other agencies to help you dealing with rape. Now be aware since you have not “evidence” you may get resistance from both professionals and parents. You may want to record a conversation with him. It may not be good in court but it get professionals to take our story serious and help you.

I am sorry what happen to you get some close female friends to support you that can be conferential threw this process. What ever you do such as recording do it with the consent of a local professional counselor that is licensed in your state.

I am not a licensed counselor but a professional and if you said this to me I would be obligated to report this if you were a minor. Please report this to a profesional today.

Answer 6

go tell the police hun. they re well trained in this sort of thing. they will remove ur brother from the family home and you can tell your mother why in saftey- perhaps with a female officer present.

hope all goes well and your brother is sorted out.

Answer 7

Tell your mother or someone else ! Your brother is sexually abusing you and you should NOT put up with it for even one more second.He needs help and go tell him right now you aren't gonna let him abuse you .Stand up to him ! Be loud and make him hear you !He is a monster and you must let him know you won't allow it !

Answer 8

Tell Tell Tell! You need to tell your mom ASAP. If she doesn't do anything then tell a teacher, counselor, church official, or call the police. If he's preying on you there are prolly others he either has or will victimize. Don't go home until he is gone- stay with friends if you can or your grandma. I wish you the best .

Answer 9

Call the police! he shouldnt be allowed to get away with this! I would think about telling your mum about this behaviour as well!

Answer 10

Well according to thie previous question you posted, this is just a fantasy, so why tell your mom at all. Maybe you could tell your dad and he could stay in your room at night to protect you. That way, when your brother comes in, your father can beat the crap out of him and anally rape him in front of you as punishment. After all, its just a fantasy right?

Answer 11

And British people shake there heads over Americans.
Sounds like you should confront him on the Jerry Springer Show and join the rest of the freak show.