Can anyone please help me out?!?

Question

Hello!
Could anyone please help me with this?
OK, each time a guy starts talking to me, first everything is just great, but then I stop, 'cause I don't find anything to talk about and I don't know how to hold a good and interesting conversation.
Would you please suggest me some interesting conversation topics?
Thanks!

Answer 1

If he tells you about something that happened in his biology class, you could ask him if he likes biology, what he thinks of the teacher, or whether he has had similar experiences in other classes, or you could tell about a time when something like that happened to you.

Trying to think of interesting topics in advance is not a good idea, because that precludes you from listening to what the other person is saying, which is a good part of what being a good conversationalist is all about.

Answer 2

I have the same problem as you. It's just who we are; shy. It's like, "Ok...this guy is really cool. How can I make a conversation interesting?" Honestly, I think if they guy is really that "interesting", he should be the one who can hold a conversation because he wants to impress you, not you trying to impress him.
The advice I have, is maybe talk about things that are present, like maybe something that's happening in the world of teenagers or things happening in your school? But be sure not talk to about anyone badly, or something. Hey, maybe you both dislike a TEACHER? Haha, just a suggestion.
Be sure to expose who you are when you hold a conversation. Make sure body language is the way you want it, because if your all up tight-he will be too. Then it's just plain awkward.

Answer 3

philosophy... human existence... that topic could go on forever

You can always talk about something you two both like, like a favorite singer/band that you two both feel passionate about. The conversation might not have much actual meaning in it other than "They're so goo!" "I know!" "And the way (insert name here) plays the guitar, it's so wicked!" "Exactly! And i just love how (insert name here) jumps into the crowd at his live concerts!" "I KNOW!!"

Though it can go on for a long time

Answer 4

Everytime I run out of things to talk about, I just change the topic to weather and be silly about it. It would be night and I would just say, soo weather, cold and dark eh. And conversation would just boot up again and before you know it, 3 hours have passed. Talk about anything that has been going on, if you run out of things still, go out with him and make stuff to talk about.

Answer 5

Just relax and everything will fall into place. As for conversation topics, tqalk about life, movies, music, family, that sort of stuff.

Answer 6

When you find the guy that is right for you, you wont have to come up with conversation. It will be like being around one of your friends, you will both contribute to the convo equally and have fun too.

Answer 7

Stop dwelling on topics that you think might interest him, and talk about the things that interest you.
Why should you continue a relationship w/ someone who doesn't share your interests?
Do you intend to live in his shadow?

Answer 8

This works trust me.
Do active listening. Ya know pay attention to what he is saying, and keep asking him questions about himself. Us guys love to talk about our self when we believe that someone is really paying attention to us. If he cant talk about himself for an hour. He's not worth the trouble.

Answer 9

Music and Movies are a great start, just be yourself, ask him his interests and talk about yours. Good luck.

Answer 10

You're just nervous and trying to impress. Don't. Be yourself. You likely don't have any lack of things to talk about with your friends, right?

So don't try to impress people. Just be who you really are. Because it will come out sooner or later anyway...