ive been dating this girl for about 4 months now, and things have been going quite well. Well, atleast i thought it was. Ive known this girl since i was only 12 years old and we even went to senior prom together. We were also best friends and talked every single day for the past 2 years or so. She broke up with her ex-boyfriend abt 5 months ago. Well we have been through some rough times but we always worked things out. She constantly tells me that she loves me and that she wants to marry me and that she wants to have kids with me. I love her very much and i would and have really done everything for her and try so very hard to be the man that she has always wanted. well the other day, i went into her email because she told me she had written an email to her ex. I know i shouldn't have but i read it anyways. It wrote that she was mad that he never tried to win her back and that she was crazy abt him and would never love anyone else as much as she did him. What sould i d0?
2006-11-05 02:37:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
do the words KICK HER TO THE CURB mean anything???
2006-11-05 02:40:03 · answer #1 · answered by Dawn C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were wrong to snoop, but I think it best at this point, to fess up, and ask for her forgiveness.
You need to explain to her that her professions of love for you are just a bunch of hot air, unless she is willing to tell her ex the same thing she is telling you.
My guess is she has feelings for both of you, which is fine, she's human after all, but she needs to make a decision.
2006-11-05 11:40:04 · answer #2 · answered by Allen Montgomery 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is still hung up on the ex and maybe you are the rebound. I would cut her lose and see what she does. If she comes back to you-then you have your answer.
2006-11-05 14:52:20 · answer #3 · answered by blonde_bitch_norris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well, this shows that you have trust issues, and if you confront her about it, she will get mad at you for invading her personal space. but communication is the most important thing in a relationship, so just talk to her about.
good luck
2006-11-05 10:42:39 · answer #4 · answered by sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a double edged sword. if you bring it up, you are going to look like you were snooping in her stuff. which in a way you were. but if you dont, then it will be on your mind forever. if you think that she may be trying to get back with her X then maybe you should talk to her about it, but dont bring it up unless you are ready for an argument either way.
2006-11-05 10:42:39 · answer #5 · answered by daniel R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should talk to her and see whats up because that's not right on what she did so just try talking to her or she might not be the one
2006-11-05 10:42:22 · answer #6 · answered by dreamergirl7771 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was stupid to break into her email because you find out information that nobody wants you to know and you'll just end up hurting yourself.
Pretend it never happened and just continue as you normally would, girls are strange and change their minds just like that.
2006-11-05 10:42:09 · answer #7 · answered by Kevin L 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Print out the email and distribute it to all of her friends and family members. Look for other emails she might have written too. Then dump her lying ***!!
2006-11-05 10:41:06 · answer #8 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Send her back to the ex. She's crazy alright.
2006-11-05 10:40:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u know her sooo well then u can talk to her frankly ...
No need to worry...i m sure she wont mind...
Disscusing the matter might solve it
2006-11-05 10:43:21 · answer #10 · answered by Sidharth S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋