okay, i just started dating this guys about two weeks ago, i really love, or like him, not sure yet. Anyways, he hasnt grown up with the best life ever and has tried to kill himself a few times, he is saying now that as much as he wants to stay with me and his 2 best friends and 2 year old nephew, he might ask to be put into foster care, and he said if he does i probably will never see him again. should i stay with him and just see wat happens, or save myself the pain it might cause and break up with him now? Im so confused so please help me! If you need more info just ask. I cant garentee that i can tell u very much cause im not sure wat i should say about someone elses life without his permission.
2006-11-05 01:44:09 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When we talked on the phone last night i told him i loved him and he almost started to cry and he said i am one of the VERY few people that he believes really loves him and cares about him. And i really dont want to hurt him by breaking up with him, so should i really sacrifice (****, i think thats spelled wrong) my feeling for his. Now that i have sat here and thought about it I think i should. But i still want other opinions.
2006-11-05 01:51:32 · update #1
Yea and i'm 13, he is 15, but we are not CHILDREN. We have been through about as much as any adult has.
2006-11-05 01:52:34 · update #2
be a friend you might be the one person in his life that cares about him.
2006-11-05 01:46:48 · answer #1 · answered by Vernee B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's nice to know that there are caring people in the world like you. In the Bible it even says, "Greater love has no one than this that they lay down their life for their friends."
Stay close and be patient. In time, he will open up and more people will love him. Once he realizes that, you can start dating others, unless you have learned to really love him.
Good luck.
I wish you the best!
2006-11-05 09:56:55 · answer #2 · answered by heyheyhey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how are you both?
i understand that he is quite young
if his parents are really bad for him then you should be glad for him if he finds a better home
if he has taken his decision then i think that you should stand for him as a friend not his girlfriend so that you save yourself the pain but that he doesnt feel abondoned
2006-11-05 09:49:55 · answer #3 · answered by girl24gr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋