friends, but I still am embarressed and uncomfortable..how do I control my embarresment..When I was with my friends who did not yet know i smoked, when they went for a cigarette, I pulled mine out of my purse, and asked "can I join you"? They were shocked and I turned 1000 shades of red...When I was with my boyfriend later than night...I said to him "hon, could you get my keys out of my purse", Of course when he did he found my pack of cigarettes like I wanted him to...he flipped...but I smoked one in front of him later...but, again was embarressed...what should I say to these people ...need help...still need to break the ice with my parents..don't know how to do it.....no lectures please.
2006-11-05 01:36:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't understand this really. How old are you?
2006-11-05 01:38:36 · answer #1 · answered by IMHO 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll give u the best advise I can.QUIT..I smoked for 30 yrs and didn't really like it in the end.But I couldn't quit because I was hooked on nicotine and a habit of having something to do with my hands.They found a tumor that was cancer on my lung.They had to take my lower right lung lope off.And then when I was in recovery I bent down and broke my rib. It was weak from the surgery due to they had to spread my ribs to get to my lung. I have quit smoking and it was one of the hardest things I did. My advise to u is since u have only been smoking 6 months it will be easier for u to quit now. Do it before u end of killing yourself. I have been cancer free for 5 years now. I still have to go in every year and have a t-scan done.Good luck
2006-11-05 09:49:57 · answer #2 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, just do it. I don't really know how to break the ice...they will probably be shocked at first, but they'll get used to seeing you smoke after awhile. Also, if you're embaressed, maybe you should avoid smoking around other people.
2006-11-05 09:39:43 · answer #3 · answered by LibraT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think that anybody is going to help you on how to feel comfortable to smoke in front of friends and parents
you d better not become so you smoke lessif not at all
2006-11-05 09:40:39 · answer #4 · answered by girl24gr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didnt read your whole post but when i read that you were embarrassed by smoking, why the heck are you doing it???
I think it is a ridiculous habit to get into and is very costly and nasty.
2006-11-05 09:39:05 · answer #5 · answered by sweetnessmo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do u smoke? i mean if u want to quite u can ask ur bf to help u q, and also if he smoke it is not a big dill
2006-11-05 09:39:47 · answer #6 · answered by sweet84 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for your OWN HEALTH give it up now before you cant. Tell them you plan on giving up smoking and you will need their help they will gladly help you.
2006-11-05 10:01:31 · answer #7 · answered by ronald r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋