Last time my ex girlfriend left me and then after 3 months wanted me to pay the council tax or something from our previous flat. I didn't and she was acting so cocky that I just walked away. But later I knew she was going to the gym went there and talked to her, then as we were walking out of the gym and talking I pinned her against the wall and kissed her, then we got back togeher.
Well she's gone again and its been 4 months now and she can't look me in the eye when she comes to pick our son up, shall I do the same as lastime do you think?
2006-11-05 01:20:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I try to live by the saying "Wrong Me Once, Shame On You; Wrong Me Twice, Shame On Me". I am sorry to say that although she may still care for you she also used you for her "self-gain" meaning you were there when she wanted you and you paid the "debt" therefore she did not have to. Had a little fun controling the "relationship" so she can have you back need she hits "a down time". Don't you want to be a "forever time" verses a "down time" ? Also remember chemistry is different than love and committment. Beings you have a child together their is always a bond but is that bond enough that you will sit back while in all reality she is looking for her "Mr. Right" and she is unfortunately using you as her "Mr. Fill-In" Trust Me lick your wounds and realize you will both possibly always have that special bond although you need to pick yourself up and accept the fact that her "Mr. Right" walks in and "Mr. Fill-In" is on the outside still looking in . Never completely being "in" is that fair to either one of you? Should you deny her her true happiness to keep hanging on to her although you see where she is "not with you" and is it fair for her to keep you dangling when you deserve happiness and love just as much as she does.? You have a "Mrs Right" out there that is unable to get to you as you are already consumed into someone who obviously has chose to move on. Let her move on and still care by all means but put her into a special place in your heart and always care. Give it to someone who truely has only the best intentions for you. Be true to yourself. That is the true ultimate feeling when you are with someone and you look in their eyes and you can get lost in feelings, as you know they are and the feeling of knowing that their is no chance their is someone else that may be in your spot and you just melt together and you really know when you feel it as the other reciprocates without a second thought. Everyone truely deserves to love and be loved. Sometimes loving someone is letting them go. It is hard but i truely hope for your sake that you think about it. Good Luck To You.
2006-11-05 02:07:08 · answer #1 · answered by Angie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
LET HER GO MAN....its hard i know but move on and find a woman that loves you ...and wont play head games
2006-11-05 09:27:07 · answer #2 · answered by acierman2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only if you want her to leave again find someone better sounds like your only good enough when noone else is available
2006-11-05 09:24:30 · answer #3 · answered by merlin2000666 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she wanted to be with you don't you think she would tell you....if she hasn't then let it go
2006-11-05 09:22:21 · answer #4 · answered by sassy2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure why not it obviously worked the first time......
2006-11-05 09:23:30 · answer #5 · answered by non-curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋