I think i'm an interesting,friendly girl and i take care of myself! i'm 20 yrs old. What's the matter with me?
2006-11-05 01:17:12 · 17 answers · asked by Snowhite1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Attitude is everything. A controlling, mean, nasty, "I can be your worst enemy" attitude will only push the guys away. Stay in control, but I would rather you be not so pretty with a positive attitude than pretty with none,
2006-11-05 01:21:08 · answer #1 · answered by MasterGR 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not a matter of finding, you don't need to look most the time, they come to you. BUT, if you can't find a DECENT boyfriend, sometimes being the aggressor isn't necessarily bad, if you're aggressing in the right places. It all depends upon how you come off, have you dated? What kind of people have you dated, what are you looking for in a man? Stuff like that should come to mind if anything. And also you're 20, you're young, if anything since you say you're a smart woman focus on your career and bigger things, then find stability, once you have that...then pursue your lovelife (if it doesn't find you first), that way you migth end up finding someone in better spots that suit you (your job), and find someone mature enough to deal ,er connect with you.
2006-11-05 09:24:44 · answer #2 · answered by Dennis 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is the matter with you. Sometimes it just takes a while to find the right guy. Don't worry too much--you'll find him. Until you do, keep your eyes, mind and heart open. I've found that love pops up at the most unusual places, but most people just pass it by because they don't see it until it's too late. Best of luck to you!
2006-11-05 09:21:49 · answer #3 · answered by Avie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is the matter with u!!!!!!!! U can't just 'find' a bf!!! Omg. The rite guy will come along, just be patient. Every1 has that special person in there life. If u like a guy don't be shy. Just ask him out!! Guys don't have to be the 1st to ask girls......and that special guy will come along. GOOD LUCK!
2006-11-05 09:20:06 · answer #4 · answered by v.ballerr <3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simply because God has a plan for you and it is not jus your time to have one. but hey your ONLY 20 years old.. still have a long way to go... youre still young. others find their love when they are already 50 years old or older. and they have found the right one. just patient ok?!
2006-11-05 09:22:56 · answer #5 · answered by Purplenash-y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your probably trying to hard. take a step back and just take it one day at a time. dont go looking for a relationship or you will end up in one that will hurt you in the end. the best relationships are the ones that happen when you least expect it.
2006-11-05 09:20:24 · answer #6 · answered by cr4is2py0 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing, they are just not the one for you. Don't worry you are only 20. You don't have to find your soul mate right now.
2006-11-05 09:19:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're so smart that you intimidate the hoards of stupid men out there?....If you act more like a ditz, you'll be less threatening to us insecure men.
2006-11-05 09:21:25 · answer #8 · answered by Brian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are intimidating to some guys?I wouldn't worry about it too much-as soon as you quit looking then it will happen
2006-11-05 09:28:56 · answer #9 · answered by I'm laughing WITH you 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just a guess but how about, you have an over inflated ego and such a high opinion of yourself that you make them sick...or perhaps no one else agrees with your glowing description of yourself.......
2006-11-05 09:19:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋