I LOVE A GIRL SHE IS MY GOOD FRIEND . i cannot tell her because i think tht she will not talk to me after this

Question

she i my good frnd she sommetime seems tht she is attracted her name is raman and my name is amit i love her for one year but i dont have guts..

Answer 1

I did the same thing.. for two years.. and out burst one day..
it will happen to you.. if your love is very true.

Answer 2

What a Guy U R go and tell her That U love her because one can share these kind of feelings only with the friend if she is really a good friend to U if she accept U R lucky If Not then she has to continue U R friendship because if She really true to U.

Answer 3

If you honestly don't think she will talk to you after you tell her you love her, and she doesn't, then it doesn't seem to me that she is a very good friend, but at least you will also know she will not make a very good girlfriend either. Try telling her this instead, " I care for you very much."
It softens the surprise she may feel when you tell her, as Love is a VERY strong word. You need to approach her gently, start with a light meaning conversation, and then when she is relaxed, tell her your feelings.
Telling her you LOVE her is too aggressive for a first time confession to her, and may scare her away! Be GENTLE, okay? But also you act confident, and not shy. Girls respond better to brave males. Good luck, go for it!

Answer 4

I think that you should try and let her know your feelings for her. I mean doesn't Love worth trying, plus It was the same about me and my best friend, we both knew we liked each other but we were just too scared to break this friendship we had, and one day we Finlay decided that it was the moment to face the truth and now we're engaged... so I'd say go ahead and tell her, and if she doesn't talk to you after then, then I guess this friendship between you guys wasn't so strong, and honestly i doubt she would be mad or that she would stop talking to you. =)

Answer 5

Go For It! You may miss out on true love if you don't at least give it a shot. Who knows - she might be waiting for you to make the move. Don't come on too strong - as to protect the friendship - but tell her how you feel. At the very least she will be flattered that you think so highly of her.

Answer 6

i will suggest dont take ne chance on ur friendship,till ur sure about her feelings ...........try finding out if she likes u in the same way or not take help of ne third person but dont directly propose her if her answer is no she may have gr8 problem telling u so as u said she is ur good friend......dont let ur friendship break for nething

Answer 7

If you wont' propose you wont' get anything! Somebody else will do it before you if you keep wondering what to do! Just tell her, that's it, guts or without guts, just tell her!

Answer 8

hi,buddy.

you are your only hope,dont mess in love.be open and tell her if she is matured she will ask u for time.if she says yes than thats what u wanted.and if she is not ready that she will appreciate ur heart.

if ur not telling her what u have in ur mind,it's like ur making fool her and YES UR,UR SELF also.

best of luck.tand do not try to give her a hint,PLZ.be transpernt.

Answer 9

same here also did not have guts to ask but when i told my friends about this they all picked me up (seriously) and took me in front of her so i had to speak it out
dont let this happen to u my friend
try and guts will come automatically
best of luck

Answer 10

bro! u r putting 2 contradictive things here . On one end u r saying "She is my good friend" and on the other end u r saying "she would not talk to me " .

First things first . "TELL HER/CONFESS TO HER " with one thing in your mind that

"SHE IS NOT REJECTING YOU " , rather she is just expressing her thoughts to the question put to her . And if she is not talking to you any more she is ACTUALLY frustrated on HER WAY OF DEALING WITH THE ISSUE .

If she is good friend of yours, either she would say YES!! or still would be your friend .

All the best