why do boys treat you like dirt??

Question

Seriously all they live for is sex,football,sleep and food.
Dont get me wrong there are some boys out thre who are the opposite of this.Men treat women like ****,lets be honest.They get them pregnant then **** off,its not there problem or so they think.
They cheat and they lie.I truly think some men are the devil in disguise.lol

Answer 1

they either don't know how to behave correctly because they weren't taught, or if they were taught how to behave correctly, they are just being lazy bums who choose to behave that way.

Answer 2

Well,

Not entirelly true...

Many guys have never had sex. They just think they have or wish they have. Instead the struggle, sin, busy themselves with something, or just mellow out and do something creative.
Many guys do not like football, or sports. They like video-games, they like work, they like reading, or they like doing something active (rockclimbing, playing with their dog, etc.)
Not all guys love to sleep. Sure it helps combat the natural desires and instincts, and the cultural identity crisis mentioned above, over all though, not all live for sleep. some want to do things, get out, be jumping around, be goofy, etc.
And foot??? Some love food too much, others too little. Most guys just eat, some are picky, but quite a few just enjoy a good meal. Their active lives may warrent a lot of food, otherwise, it may be no thing.
Men who do things irresponsibly are not men, they are boys. So getting someone pregnant is easy, taking up the reins to be a father is hard, with or without the partner for life.
many men have never cheated. It is hard not to notice other women, because we are made to be attractive, procreate, and so on... not men, but humans! Lieing is something everyone does, I do not think it is just men. I know for sure, many women have lied and hurt some great many hearts.

Answer 3

well they probably think the same about women and I found of some boys don't kno how 2 show affection maybe u are just lookin in da wrong place u must be pregnant or somethin but all I can say is deal wit it one day things may change but 4 now play da game Oh yeah also in earlier relationships something may have went wrong and they keep it a secret and neva really get ova it and u may do somethin that reminds them of it and they think u-r tryin to bring pain on them So anger is the best way to show it instead of talkin about it

Answer 4

Men act like that because women stay around and let them, if every women stopped having sex with men who treated her like dirt word would get around pretty quick and most guys would be smart enough to whip themselves into shape. To avoid the lying ones only sleep with a guy you have been with for several months before having sex! If he is only there for sex there is no way he's going to hang around for months waiting.

Answer 5

simple answer to your question that is asked so often,
and I'm afraid a lot of the time it come's back onto you
i won't say that it's your fault but look closely at the blokes that you are attracted to. the only way to give your self a better chance of not being shat on is to take more time with your selection
there are many nice blokes out there that want to take care of you believe me. I'm a nice bloke. but when i was single it seemed to me that woman are more attracted to those you are mean and nasty that do put you down. i don't know why exactly but the best and most simple answer is to take more time with your selection find out about the bloke before you drop the walls that protect you
just remember to drop them walls when you do find the right bloke for you

Answer 6

YOU MAY HAVE A POINT THEIR, BUT YOU KNOW WHAT IT IS THAT SOME WOMAN, NOW IN DAYS DO NOT TAKE THE TIME TO OBSERVE THESE SO CALLED WANNA BEES, YEH ITS SAD TO SAY THAT TIMES HAVE CHANGED, WHEN IT COMES UP TO SOME MEN, THEY PREY ON WOMAN WHO ARE VULNERABLE, LONELY, TROUBELED,ETC...,THEY TELL YOU WHAT YOU WANNA HEAR, CONFORT YOU IN A TIME OF NEED AND THEN ONCE YOU THINK THAT THIS ONE IS THE ONE FOR YOU AND YOU DROP THOSE PANTS AND GAVE IT UP WITHOUT OBSERVING HIM BEFORE YOU FEEL IN LOVE, THEN ONE IS SET FOR A DOWN FALL, COME ON TODAY ONE NEEDS TO OBSERVE, THIS IS FOR BOTH WOMAN AND MEN. TO ANSWER YOUR QUESTION, IT'S BECAUSE ONE LETS THEM,IF YOU RESPECT YOURSELF AND OTHERS AND DON'T GET THE SAME IN RETURN, THEN TURN AROUND AND DON'T LOOK BACK, POINT BLANK, YOU COULD ONLY BE TREATED THE WAY YOU ALLOW THEM TO TREAT YOU OH AND BY THE WAY THERE ARE SOME GOOD MEN OUT THERE, YOU JUST NEED TO OBSERVE,AHHHHH YES AND DO NOT LET A MAN BRING YOUR HOPES DOWN, THERES TO MANY FISH IN THE SEE, MOVE ON

Answer 7

I believe you have a very valid point, there are lots of men out their who treat women like their just objects or prizes. Its very wrong and lets just hope that women and guys who treat women the way they ought to be treated push for things to be changed.

Answer 8

Ok, the real question is "How do you treat yourself?"

1. Do you put your education, career and plans to take care of yourself first?

2. Do you pick good friends that you can trust?

3. Do you make plans to include GOD when you don't understand something? To grow spiritually needs to be in your plan for life.

When you start to take care of yourself better, you will be better at picking friends, and of course men!

Good luck! My prayers are with you!

Answer 9

If boy treat u like dirt cuz propably ur dirt too & u must like bad boys who are dirt. If ur not dirt u wouldn't be hanging around dirt. U hang with the dogs, u get the flees & u must be a dog too, but don't know it yet .

Answer 10

now really!! all the guys aren't like that. Just because you have a grudge with a few doesn't mean you can stereotype them by saying 'the guys'.. and I'm being honest!

Answer 11

You have described many men, but not ALL men.
There are many respectfull, caring men out there who are single because women are attracted to "bad boy" types.