My friend just got dumped bt this guy and now he has a crush on me. i have a crush on him too. my friend thinks she knows whats going on beetween me and the other guy. the real problem is, i already have a boy friend. i just canchoose beetween them. My boy friend, the one that doesn't know about the other guy, is my friend's twin!!! my life is now ful of chaos and secrets. i hold the other guy's hand all the time but not in public. only when we hand out at like my house or something. i really need help. i hope i didn;t leave anything out...
2006-11-05 00:06:23 · 12 answers · asked by iEatMonstersForBreakfast 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't two-time on your boyfriend. If you want to date the other guy, be upfront and break up with your boyfriend. You wouldn't want anyone two-timing YOU, do you?
2006-11-05 00:09:36 · answer #1 · answered by DMBthatsme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, some of them other anwsers were a bit harsh.
Okay, here's what I would do;;
I'd take some time away from the two of them, and get to know MYSELF a little better. I would figure out what I want in a relationship, first.
Then I would decide who i feel more comfortable with, and more open with.
I wouldn't let what other people say effect my decision in the end tho.
Just, follow your heart & NOT your head.
2006-11-05 00:14:16 · answer #2 · answered by [.MamaBugg.] 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't play around with their feelings in the end the one who is going to be hurt is you. Be honest to yourself and decide on which is the one you really love and break the news to the other gently. Even if the one you are going to dump is your friend's twin
2006-11-05 00:19:45 · answer #3 · answered by Michelle f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
come clean with your friend first (the twin) and find out what she knows and then fill her in with the rest. you also need to explain everything to your hand holding friend. most importantly, though you need to figure out your fellings for the other twin and decide if you are going to staywith him or just get the bes of both worlds and get your threesome on or what...
2006-11-05 00:12:15 · answer #4 · answered by Shrek'shandsomeidenticaltwin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do one greater interrogation to her, then if she will have the means to declare that she discovered a clean one for her then greater useful ask her what's there which you lack interior the dating. Ask for a proof why she did it! which you would be able to recover from that disaster, do no longer seem for somebody yet, merely be loose from being single and luxuriate in it. enable her be out of your recommendations previously entering a clean dating because you would be unfair to your self and to the hot one you will adore. merely tutor to that gf of yours that even without her on your existence you are going to be happy and he or she's no longer a misplaced in spite of everything.
2016-12-28 13:31:07 · answer #5 · answered by gerda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up and be honest or make a choice-your'e making your own chaos,only you can end it.Or let everyone find out you are a cheat and liar and be lonely.Good Luck
2006-11-05 00:10:30 · answer #6 · answered by maykithapin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you have to choose? Just tell everybody what's going on and if they agree, you can have fun with Bob and Carol and Ted and Alice...if not, well, at least you tell everybody where they stand! Besides, you've already decided what you're going to do, so why ask us???
2006-11-05 00:11:03 · answer #7 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i mean does it not seem wrong to you, you wanna be with your friends ex, which is wrong, and you have a boyfriend and hold another guys hand which is wrong, its pretty clear, risk your friendship and current boyfriend, for a guy, pretty simple, one or the other
2006-11-05 00:11:13 · answer #8 · answered by singmelies 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. I remember being this young. When chaos was cool and hot guys roamed the mall.........
2006-11-05 00:10:05 · answer #9 · answered by Isis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
with an attitude like that it a wonder you have a boyfriend at all.
2006-11-05 00:09:54 · answer #10 · answered by joey h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋