sometimes, some relationships requires a lot of sacrifices in order to make it work ...sometimes, you have to changes your habits, your diet, your beliefs, all of the natural you , sometimes to allow it possible ... what to do if you are in love ..? resisting sometimes, makes suffer ... what would you suggest for these kind of relationships ..?
2006-11-04 23:23:34 · 11 answers · asked by bobby s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If a relationship need sacrifice then it will not be worth it.If you need to give up something i think it must be willingly and not as a sacrifice for the relationship to work.
If it's a sacrifice then sooner or later it will crop up in a relationship and might even cause greater damage.
2006-11-04 23:29:12 · answer #1 · answered by max x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on how much you want to be in this relationship. Every relationship requires many such sacrifices, some more than others, but none is free of sacrifice.
After a while you get used to the sacrifices you make when you realize that it only brings happiness and serenity to your relationship. But if you feel the sacrifices are too much for you, just get out of the relationship before it gets more and more serious.
2006-11-05 07:27:11 · answer #2 · answered by rinah 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I disagree that you have to change "all the nature of you". Yes, a relationship sometimes takes work and some changes but it should never require you to change "who you are". I don't think a relationship like that could work for very long. Making changes for the better are good but you shouldn't have to change your basic beliefs & character for anyone.
2006-11-05 07:42:28 · answer #3 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are making sacrifices then I worry about the relationship. if you are both making compromises then I can understand. you need not make sacrifices that change who you are for a relationship. if you can not accept your partner as is or your partner wants to change you then its not a relationship anymore..take a step back and look at the big picture
2006-11-05 07:27:59 · answer #4 · answered by bluedanube69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to decide whether the relationship is worth the sacrifice if its love and dedication and commitment that you dont want to lose then sacrifices have to be made. we cant have it all! compromise always strengthens any relationship anyway because it promotes mutual respect.
2006-11-05 07:26:30 · answer #5 · answered by adams girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you know what it depends:
woud you become a BETTER person after changing a lot of your old habits and/or beliefs?
if you're gonna change into something else ..you might have a nervous breakdown.
2006-11-05 07:35:27 · answer #6 · answered by happybeanstalk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if its somthing u cud take up n bare it ur self, then its ok 2 take up, if not, jus talk 2 ur partner n let him\her know wht alot of hardships ur going through. n sort it out.
good luck
2006-11-05 07:28:19 · answer #7 · answered by sunflower 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd ask,
"is the benefits of the relationship worth 'my' PERSONAL cost?"
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2006-11-05 07:36:12 · answer #8 · answered by DM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It,s not worth it, i know for sure. Why would you do that? What about the other person? Is he/she doing the same?
2006-11-05 07:26:18 · answer #9 · answered by Dulcinea 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm...acceptance is my serenity for today..lol
find peace with yourself..love urself first
then the rest will come
2006-11-05 07:28:34 · answer #10 · answered by native,pride 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋