I made a most regret thing in my life. This year i am only 13 years old and i had make my 12years old girlfriend pregnant. Now her baby was 2months already.... I thought she wont pregnant because of her age. How can i tell my parents about it and my family hav finacial problem.I asked her to go for abortion but i not enough money. Need how many month only the stomach of my girlfriend will show more obvious because i scare her parents will find out. Please help me to solve my problem. I dont want to be father so young.
Is it making a 12years old girl pregnant is a crime?
Do i need to break up with her ?because it wont be my problem if i break up with her.
Is virgin important to a 12years old girl?
2006-11-04 23:23:20 · 8 answers · asked by evolutionf330q 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be as honest with yourself and others as soon as possible... I know it is awful to be where you are at right now, but telling someone in your family or hers that you have the best relationship with is going to be your best bet long term. You need support. Since you are both minors, it is unfortunant that you have this in front of you, but I don't think it is a crime... If one of you were an adult that would be a problem. Be as strong as you can. This will get better. There are other choices. There are many families out there that wish to adopt a child. But still at least be there as her friend and make sure she gets the proper medical care and emotional support. Please don't wait any longer to tell an adult... Time will make matters harder to deal with. I suggest not to break up with someone because of her medical condition. She's got to be emotional too right now. If you have other problems than the pregnancy, consider doing so because of that.... But you should really be there for each other since you both created the dilema.
2006-11-04 23:40:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It appears to me that you and your girlfriend have made a serious mistake. Both of you are too young to be having sex and too young to be effective parents.
I recommend that you come clean and let both sets of parents know what's going on. While this might be a scary prospect to you, the chances are that they will find out anyway, so you might as well let them know while abortion is still an option.
I must mention that as a boy who did adult things and now has adult responsibilities, I am disappointed that you are now looking to "get off the hook" and leave your girlfriend to deal with the problem. That child IS your problem and you have responsibilities that you can't run away from.Whatever happens you owe it to your girlfriend to stand by her and support her as much as you possibly can.
Your parents should be able to get you and your girlfriend help and advice about your options.
2006-11-05 07:44:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously, being a virgin is not important to her because she had sex with you and if she is willing to have an abortion then talk to your parents and ask for the money. It was a very expensive experience for you, maybe you will think twice in the future about using protection and consider this question could have been about how you contracted aids instead. I'm sure you'd consider that to be worse than becoming a parent.
2006-11-05 07:42:29 · answer #3 · answered by dan h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's all ur fault...now honstly if that was ur sister would you accept that for her?? she's only 12 anyway u must tell the parents coz they only will solve that...a boy who has 13 yrs old cant do anything with that nor a gurl who has 12 yrs old
2006-11-05 07:46:22 · answer #4 · answered by maro 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell your parents now! She needs to tell her parents now! The longer you wait the worse things will get. DO IT NOW!
Forget that fear you have in your gut swallow hard and go tell them and get it over with.
2006-11-05 07:28:06 · answer #5 · answered by bill a 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These questions has to be think before you making her pregnant. Now it is your fault...... You must tell to your father and mother and as well as her father and mother
2006-11-05 07:27:00 · answer #6 · answered by srinivas_cheemalamarri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are in a spot of bother. i would advise you to speak to an adult you trust.
i cant sat anymore , good luck
2006-11-05 07:26:59 · answer #7 · answered by SIMON T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u proved r u a real man. tell ur x-perience in sex with her
2006-11-05 07:30:17 · answer #8 · answered by STAR 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋