Please help me,how can i tell my parents.?

Question

I made a most regret thing in my life. This year i am only 13 years old and i had make my 12years old girlfriend pregnant. Now her baby was 2months already.... I thought she wont pregnant because of her age. How can i tell my parents about it and my family hav finacial problem.I asked her to go for abortion but i not enough money. Need how many month only the stomach of my girlfriend will show more obvious because i scare her parents will find out. Please help me to solve my problem. I dont want to be father so young.

Is it making a 12years old girl pregnant is a crime?

Do i need to break up with her ?because it wont be my problem if i break up with her.
Is virgin important to a 12years old girl?

Answer 1

Darling, it's not a crime firstly because you are both underage. If she wants a termination, it should be within the first 3 months so you gotta act quick! The very first thing that you should do is make absolutely sure that she is telling you the truth. Some young girls can lie about these things for all sorts of reasons. Perhaps she is feeling bad about having sex & wants you to feel guilty. Let's face it.. she is a child and so are you so she is not emotionally mature even if her body is maturing. Get a home pregnancy test and do it with her. You could do it at a friends house or wherever you had sex. Buy one from a chemist and tell her you need to make sure. If she freaks out, she could be lying so tell her you have to be sure before you can help her. If you do the test and it's positive.. you HAVE to call a helpline. That's what these are for, to help people like you. They will be able to advise you on costs of abortions, other options and help with telling your family if you have to. You HAVE to call someone because it will be too late very soon. You were man enough to have sex so you have to be man enough to take control of this situation NOW. Honestly, call a help line. It is confidential and they will help more than anyone on here can. good luck & act quick.. it;s not going away no matter how hard you wish.

For all you people who are just saying they shouldn't have done this. THEY KNOW THAT already. They are kids and have made a mistake. If you can't offer them help, don't give them sh*t

Answer 2

Well, you are an idiot! What were you thinking? - these are the things you are going to hear, so grow up a bit.

Now, you want someone else to solve your problem, some growing up boy doing things that are serious, interesting!!!

Try praying, that seems to be the best way. you think God cares, he does. He is in control of the whole situation, so better start there.
Forget abortion. Just grow up, take responsibility for what you did and take care of the situation. You did the act, no follow through with the responsibility.
If you did not want a child or to be iwth that woman, then you should have been thinking more clearly. Now! Start getting to it. Tell your parents with ease, tell her you will help out, but how you feel about the whole situation. And move on. So you have a kid to help raise, so what? It could be worse, you could be dying and that my friend is very different!

Answer 3

Your problem is not a simple one to solve but honesty is the most direct way out and probably the safest. You need your parents help and, although it will place the burden on them too, you need to tell them. If an abortion is a possibility, then you need to take action soon because that process is complicated after three months. Whatever your course of action, you are a minor and your options are limited with out your parents. Tell them and tell them soon. It will be hard but they love you and are here to help you. Waiting may make your situation worse.

Answer 4

well let me just say **** . Anyway let see ur 13 she is 12 ok so u need to talk to your parents cause this is a majour situation u have got ur self into and your both need help from both ur parents if u think its the best thing for the both of u to have a abortion she and u will need help from the adults before and after and if u keep the baby she will need all the surport she can get as it's not easy bring up a child i have 2 and iam on my own and 28 so PLEASE TELL THEM THEY might get mad but things will calm down

Answer 5

Okay she is just pregnant right? Well I think she needs to go to her parents or you should go to her parents & let them know now.I believe your parents need you to tell them as well cause this is not something you can hide & it will go away. Ok you messed up & now it is time to learn what being a grown up is since you thought you was ready for it when you started having sex at such a early age without protection. Handle it today cause this is very serious.

Answer 6

I'm not sure where you live, but if there is a Planned Parenthood in your area, you and she both need to go there together. They can assist you in taking care of the situation - free of charge. They are there to aid you and counsel you on your options.

To make an appointment with the Planned Parenthood center nearest you about your pregnancy options and prenatal care, call toll-free 1-800-230-PLAN.

Answer 7

Youngsters! They will never learn. U wanted the pleasure, now u bare the outcome. U wil have to tell. U are very young to be getting girls pregnant. Tell ur parents and get the crap sorted. Good luck. Oh ya,congrats!

Answer 8

Are you serious?? Don´t want to be a father yet? You should have been thinking about that before having sex. Now you have no choise but to tell your parents straight up

Answer 9

Grasshopper..you have a big load to bare...best to fess-up to your parents NOW, before it's too late! Too bad you must be for learning this lesson the hard way!

Answer 10

Your gonna have to tell your parents you should have not had sex in the first place good luck.