I would really like a bf but all the boys i know seem to fancy my best m8 and its really getting my confidence down. i feel so depressed and this has nocked my confidence. please help!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-04 22:34:50 · 13 answers · asked by |_@\/\/ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Seems no one else really answered your question, and simply diverted you to do something else..
So my suggestion to you would be to get out there. In my personal experience it is really difficult to meet new people when you are by yourself. The best chance to get to know others is for one group to mix with another, and just see who you connect with. You meet a lot of new people by just simply being in the same area. My friends and I have met a lot of girls by going to resturants, and talking to groups of girls that come in.
Find something that you like to do, such as going to concerts, and go often. There are usually familiar faces at such events.
As hard as it may sound, if you want to meet someone, just walk up and say hello, and strike up a conversation. Once you've done it a few times, it will be no problem.
I know none of this had to do directly with finding a boyfriend, but if you try those things, it will lead to one. I promise you that.
2006-11-04 22:48:31 · answer #1 · answered by aita_tocs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't need a boyfriend to lift your confidence. You should learn to be confident in youtself, otherwise you will just find a guy who treats you badly and that's far worse than being single. You will find that once you have a boyfriend it may not be what you are looking for. You just need to find something that makes you happy and comfortable with yourself and who you are. The rest will come naturally. Guys are attracted to girls that are comfortable with themselves and sure of themselves.
2006-11-05 06:40:54 · answer #2 · answered by laislinns 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i go to an all girls school, so i know what u need to do join a sport or something. i joined the austrlaian army cadets...lots of boys..i even got a boyfriend out of it and many best friends. find something you like and make friends. dnt chase after the boys who dnt like you...make new guy friends
2006-11-05 06:40:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a reason why you are going to an all girl's school. Your parents want you to concentrate on school work and not on boys.
2006-11-05 06:37:36 · answer #4 · answered by Trollhair 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are still at school now, forget the BF for the moment, study hard dear.
2006-11-05 06:42:00 · answer #5 · answered by salam a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a social life
2006-11-05 06:38:40 · answer #6 · answered by emil6702 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go shopping alone or with other friends. go to the movies. thats always a good pick up spot
2006-11-05 06:39:19 · answer #7 · answered by loraine b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Until you love yourself NOBODY is going to. Go to therapy or a Priest for help.
2006-11-05 06:36:49 · answer #8 · answered by angeleyez1956@verizon.net 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just have a little patience. Your turn will come one day.
2006-11-05 06:38:58 · answer #9 · answered by Peanut Butter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah...love yourself so others can love you...there is no other way...no matter how beautiful you are it won't make really a difference if you have low self esteem.
2006-11-05 06:38:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋