I'm 17, go to an al girls school, have really good friends BUT i know no guys. at all. Way back about three years ago I went to a party and snogged one, meaningless but I'm glad I have! I'm really worried because instead of going out to parties on the weekends I stay in, I'ver never had a boyfriend and sometimes I really feel I am the only one.
Does anyone have any ideas of how to meet people or get myself to these parties? I'm going to uni soon so it's gonna be really weird!
2006-11-04 22:33:02 · 15 answers · asked by ceexbee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you do not have to follow the trend. just be yourself.
2006-11-04 22:37:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are 17. You shouldn't be worrying to much about boys yet. I understand that it feels like you are the only girl in the world that doesn't have a guy at your age, or that has never been with a guy at your age, but you're not. Wait until university. You will meet loads of guys there and go to loads of parties. And you won't be left out or feel weird at all, I can promise you that! Just don't go throwing yourself around trying to feel accepted and trying to grow up too fast because you will just do something that you later regret. Wait until you feel comfortable to go out. There will be enough partying at university, that much is for sure. More than enough. So just wait till you get there! Don't try to rush yourself!
2006-11-04 22:38:10 · answer #2 · answered by laislinns 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well Christmas is getting closer...parties everywhere at this time of year...put the feelers out and find out if there are any parties in your area...also bonfire night tonight, there's bound to be lads around, fireworks are like toys to them...you're only 17 so i would not worry too much about not having a boyfriend, just go out with your friends and have fun, you'll meet someone when the times right
2006-11-04 22:42:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Charlot,
I added you in my msn...but you never come up online....I'm sure you're not desperate but just feeling that you are. So anyway, get stuck in some societies like I do and always go to socials. And if you like go to the gigs where you can meet like-minded people and some sweet guys possibly. Dont forget eye-contact and sweet smile which is very important. Good luck.
xPx
2006-11-04 22:48:41 · answer #4 · answered by BurmanP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is really nothing to worry so much about boys now, you are very young , only 17. Concentrate on your studies at the moment. When the time is set everything will be fine.
2006-11-04 22:39:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join a health club or some kind of club and meet someone who enjoys the same thing you do. Parties are ok for a few hours and a few laughs but meet someone with your interest or it won't work.
2006-11-04 22:38:20 · answer #6 · answered by angeleyez1956@verizon.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at 17 you do not need to worry too much.
you could start by talking to males on answers but use caution though.
you will have plenty of times for party,s and relationships etc.
it sounds like your self confidence and self esteem may be starting to suffer though,and that is a worry.you are special and one day the world will know you are special.
good luck
mike
2006-11-04 22:41:28 · answer #7 · answered by listener06y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i also go to an all girls school and my best friend is a boy (i like him a lil bit lol ok i fancy the pants off him) so the best way to meet boys is go to clubs outside of schools and there you should meet rele nice guys plus make new friends. i dont need parties to meet guys, (to tell the truth im not rele popular at all) but this guy whos my best friend ive bin out wiv 3 times and dumped him all those times !!wots wrong wit me now i like him agen!!! see how great it is to meet guys, go to a club out of school and see for yourself
2006-11-05 03:21:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went to a mixed school and still had no boyfirend....I got going much later...and you know it all happens very naturally....we start to preen ourselves...the boys start showing interest....and you spot the one you fancy.....nothing stronger than a womans fancy to guide her.
When you hit Uni...take it easy....you'll make lots of friends and contacts....you then get invited to the parties...
See what is hot see what is not...look listen and learn.
2006-11-04 23:01:30 · answer #9 · answered by SALLY D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't force anything, because you will appear desperate. being a uni will give you more of a chance to meet new people and get out and about.
find some clubs where you are to get out and meet people, dont' mean youth clubs,but there has to be somewhere, where they go, also the pub, you dont' need to drink to be in there
2006-11-04 22:38:41 · answer #10 · answered by redsticks34 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont worry, its not hte end of the world, u'll meet some1. try goin to chruch, or joinin a youth group, or even volunteer work. get out there, thats where the guys are. u cant just sit home and wait for prinvce charming to show up. u gotta get out there and find him.
2006-11-04 22:39:09 · answer #11 · answered by so confused 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋