I want to die. I am so ugly.?

Question

It breaks my heart when my boyfriend's friends talk about how beautiful every other girl is. I want to be beautiful too. Is it too much to ask for to be beautiful? Plastic Surgery? I need help.

Answer 1

Beautify yourself from the inside out, and stop worrying about other girls. Everyone has days when they feel ugly, find some value in yourself that isn't based on looks, and go from there.

Answer 2

Just because your boyfriends friends don't tell you that your beautiful doesn't mean your not. It's not their place to comment on your looks to him. That's out of order. How would feel if they were sitting around saying how ugly girls were? Would that make you feel any better. Look at it this way, you have a boyfriend who likes you the way you are. Most girls in general can't even say they have a man......ugly ones or beautiful ones. Don't think plastic surgery will solve your problem. If your not happy with yourself on the inside then what you like on the outside, before and after surgery, won't make a difference. Good luck.

Answer 3

Let me tell you something, beauty is not measured by the outside of a person. It is measured by the kindness we show the world. Do you know that when you walk in confidence you proclaim beauty. Have you ever known a person to be beautiful on the outside but so ugly on the inside, {greedy, selfish, horrible to other people, just plain nasty}, well they become unattractive to people. If you gave yourself one bit of confidence, you will see how beautiful you are. I wish you have come to the point that I have in life. I was a flight attendant for 20 years. I was hired in the midst of the sexual revolution. You had to have a body, a face to die for and a personality to boot. How awful for us women. But, still the same I carried this job. I flew with so many women most whom I would never give the time of day to, because of the vanity. All the years I flew, the more I knew what a premo person I was. I was beautiful and had to be to get the job back then, but most of all I was beautiful inside. Don't short change yourself, you have what they all envy, true beauty, please, be proud of who you are all the time. A person has to truly know you to base an opinion of you. I promise you, you will be remembered as :Wow wasn't she beautiful. Own this my child

Answer 4

You know what how about going down and volunteering at a burn center in a children's hospital. Take a good look at what would look ugly to society's standards, is not ugly to those kids. So for God's sakes realize that you are beautiful and save the plastic surgery to the kids that need those skin grafts ok. And dump your bf and his friends and find one that will treat you right. You would fall in love with these kids. You see what I am getting at here. It would take your mind off of you. And then you would realize that you are blessed more than you know.

Answer 5

Put some make up. Change hair style. Smile. Keep good skin. Don't do plastic surgery. U will feel regret. Everyone has their own market. Have confidence in yourself and try to care people around you. You are attractive not only becuz you are pretty outside but personality is a big reason too!

Answer 6

Hi amber,...this is so heartbreaking to me..as I have felt the same way and was made to feel that way by family members growing up...I never saw my own talents, as everything I did was dismissed as I wasn't pretty as the rest and so therefore nothing I did mattered...this can be so debilitating...I did end up getting some plastic surgery, and it did and does make me feel better,...But I know one thing, that the true friends I have, love me for my inner beauty and the other is just shallow. You have to love yourself and make the best of what you have, I somehow feel that you are probably prettier than the ones they are raving over...Good luck, .and love yourself first, remember, God Loves, you, and so does Jesus.

Answer 7

You need to know that some men view a "pretty" girlfriend as a status symbol, and many are thrilled with much less in order to get a friend that they can spend the rest of their lives with, with no regrets. This doesn't make their choices "ugly". Some men care more about who they're with than impressing others. I haven't dated anyone as a status symbol, but I can't say any of them were ugly. Short, tall, pudgy, skinny...I'm amazed at the variety of women that can be attractive. You should know that even those model-type girls are insecure about their looks, so try not to be paranoid about the canned standard.

Answer 8

hey! what r u talking gal? c'mon don't b upset. first thing first, everyone is beautiful in one's own way,. though really blessed are those who've been gifted with a good heart! and why to be upset about what others say? love your own self, believe u r unique!!and mind you what matters at the end of the day is how many people admire you, and true admiration comes from people who value thoughts over appearance. so dont give a damn, what they say, and start loving yourself the way God wants you to be, nobody's got the right to question His creation! now look at yourself in the mirror with your qualities as your ornaments and mine, look how b'ful u r! a day will come when they will recognise ur real worth & like u for ur real beauty, believe me they will!!!

Answer 9

GURL!!!! y would u want to do plastic surgery?? nobody is too bad lookin to do dat and im not gon lie to u that inner beautiy stuff is crap but .. nd im sure thats all happened to us those sucky dayz when we jus feel jus plain ugly but dont let it get u down gurl they juss messin wit u nd gurl as long as u got yo man u will neva feel ugly .. and if yo boifriend dont make u feel special and pretty kick his *** to da curb and find sumbady who will appreci8 u .. cus if he joinin in on day stupid lil talk den once agan kick him to da curb .. nd if u feel ugly put on a lil makeup try new outfits and juss dont do plastic surgery it juss make u ugly!!!!! and it make u look like a cheap whore .. lol good luck hun

~sarmanne

Answer 10

You know what they say - For every beautiful woman, there is a man who's bored of her. Be happy. Do a little good deed everyday. It can make you feel beautiful and it really really shows!