I am petite and pretty but not HOT! Though my darling boyfriend says i am. We are in a long distance relationship and sometimes i strip for him on the webcam. Recently, it's been taking him as long as 10 minutes to come. It makes me feel like im not hot enough or sexy enough anymore. What do i do?
2006-11-04 20:39:05 · 13 answers · asked by Dumbchick 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, I would have to see the webcast in order to make an informed contribution...
2006-11-04 20:41:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tease him more. Back off on the stripping. You're only emphasizing the fact that he can't really touch you. You're trying too hard. If you're petite and pretty with a nickname of "Skipper", what's not to like in an online relationship? I'd like some attention too!
Seriously, if this is only a matter of how fast you can get him to come, it will be a self-fulfilling nightmare. When you work up to the real deal, most women complain that men don't take long enough. But I had another thought...you think you know who you're dealing with. How old do you think he is? Are you sure?
2006-11-04 20:52:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing for you to do is work on boosting your self esteem. Why do you think there is something wrong with you and not him? Your boyfriend says you are hot, and you say your are not! Also, there is no time limit on such things and for sure 10 minutes is not a long time!
2006-11-04 20:59:34 · answer #3 · answered by candace b 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give me your screen name and let me watch and then I would be better able to tell you. Also if you say it takes him almost 10 minutes to get off, do you think the hotter the female the quicker the guy gets off? The real question is how long does it take him when you are together?
2006-11-05 09:20:40 · answer #4 · answered by trollwzrd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well u could always send me your email and i will have a look at your webcam!!!,just joking......sometimes its very hard in a long distance relationship to have the same feelings as you did when you were together ,i am in one now.When we are not together i honestly miss her more than anything ,but things are still so .......different
2006-11-04 20:43:46 · answer #5 · answered by lakersfanatic132 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are what you think you are. It all starts in your head.
Maybe the problem with his not getting off sooner is not with you.Don't let anyone make you feel less about yourself. Tell yourself your are hot and you will be,give it a try what do you have to lose.
2006-11-04 21:10:36 · answer #6 · answered by dettie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My only thought on this is that a warm body is better than a cold computer.
2006-11-04 20:42:50 · answer #7 · answered by Mark 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is taking his time and enjoying you, I don't think that's something you should perceive as a bad thing.
2006-11-04 20:41:55 · answer #8 · answered by Kerry 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it might not be you it just might be thta he does it so often it takes him a while now. Be carefull with that other people can see you, ever heard of hackers?
2006-11-04 20:44:57 · answer #9 · answered by mnm4213 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U must feel urself if u feint it's not real sense
2006-11-04 20:44:52 · answer #10 · answered by marjan m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋