Ok, so I've been humilated by my boyfriend-something that I never let happen-by n-e-body, never. He goes out & has fun & expects me to stay at home. But I'm fed up with his ****! I've been through so much & I've been abused physically & emotionally. We've been together close to 2 years. He has played with my feelings it's not even right. & now it looks like we're heading for a break-up. But b4 that happens I want him to suffer everything that I've been through. I want him to suffer that he doesn't have me n-e-more. I want him to be longing for me. I wanna play with his mind (the same exact way he played with mine). I want him to c that he ain't gonna find another female that's gonna put up with his **** like I did. Can n-e-body help me?
2006-11-04 20:26:20 · 15 answers · asked by Nicole M 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-11-04 20:37:35 · answer #1 · answered by jan 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can't make him suffer the way he made you suffer, so don't waste your time. He doesn't have the same feelings as you, and there isn't anything you can do to change that. Don't waste your time and energy trying to make him feel something that he doesn't. You have to move on. If you try to make him suffer, in the end you will only suffer more for having made a fool out of yourself. The truth is, there are lots of women willing to put up with his ****, but you shouldn't be worrying about that. Your concern should be getting what you deserve, from someone who can actually give it to you.
2006-11-05 04:34:20 · answer #2 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow ! revenge, Hm-mm , if he has abused you physically , you should be gone already , that's just not right , I would suggest not doing anything while your still there , it could back fire and he could abuse you more , I think most guys can't stand the silent treatment , I think you should just put a plan together , collect some assets , find a place , don't let him find out where you are and don't tell him your going to leave , just be gone , I don't know your situation , but maybe its time to start a new life , new start , do you know anybody out of state , relatives , friends , pack a suitcase leave your past behind and let him live with all the memory's you leave behind , the nicknack's , pictures , and your clothes that you didn't like anyways , make him sweat , your just missing Hm-mm .. good luck and let me know what happens or what you plan ,check my 360 for e-mail ....
2006-11-05 04:58:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him... when you get out of his life and he found another girl, the thing is, he will do the same thing to that girl and maybe the girl would break up with him... that is the time he realizes that you are better for you didn't leave him for a long time and would be sorry and want you to come back to him.. that's is the time u dump him and you'll get your revenge....
2006-11-05 04:36:15 · answer #4 · answered by Secrency 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what dont worry about if he gets another girl if she puts up with it let her you should be lucky you can get out of it but you know what to do that might make him flip after a couple days after you break up with him find a new guy then people will spread the word you have a new guy
2006-11-05 04:30:44 · answer #5 · answered by babygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My son's father emotionally abused me and I wanted so much to get even when we broke up, but instead I kept my self-respect and dignity and just let the joker go. It was years later he came to me apologizing and admitting I was the best he'd dated and he knew he made a mistake . I just smiled and brushed him off. They get their just desserts in the end. Let him go and thank God you are rid of him.
2006-11-05 04:33:37 · answer #6 · answered by softlyinspired 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know EXACTLY how u feel. the best revenge is to better urself. he will realize what he lost and if he doesnt who cares. u doing some for YOU! take a class or do volunteer work. something that will take ur mind of revenge. i know its easier said than done, but we all have the power. just think of how miserable he would be to see u happy, doing things for urself. the sweetest revenge...
2006-11-05 04:31:24 · answer #7 · answered by so confused 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be cruel. Be the better person and just walk away from this bad relationship. You'll be better off down the road. If you try to be mean to this guy, you'll only regret it later.
2006-11-05 04:30:49 · answer #8 · answered by Jake S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think revenge is the answer. Don't let yourself sink to his level. I say break it off yourself and find a guy who will treat you right.
2006-11-05 04:36:03 · answer #9 · answered by Woahhh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned! Go for it hon, but just think of the legal implications if you go too far!!!! Be careful!
2006-11-05 04:42:37 · answer #10 · answered by wheeliebin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got too angry. I gave up to pay back, just waisting time.
Live the bum, get freedom, enjoy the life. Is noting to win.
I wish you Happy Holidays.
2006-11-05 04:33:25 · answer #11 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋