Im still in highschool and my boyfriend is in the army, i "love" everything he does , but i want to party, but i get flirtasious and sexual when i do, he gets drunk, but hes surrounded by guys so he can't do anything. should i move on to another guy even though its really really serious between me and my soldier or should i stick with him till the end? help!!!
2006-11-04 20:13:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Gee nice...might as well let him go if you can't wait...damn
2006-11-04 20:14:47 · answer #1 · answered by loofa36 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well sounds like your still to young to settle down. He also sound like he needs more control over drinking and the people he hangs around with. I am proud that he is a defender of our country and values. He is a young man and doing some great things in life but also doing some really stupid things like drinking to much. It is not unusual for young men and old to be inconstant. That is him and you can’t really control what he does or chose to do and I would not try it.
On the other hand you have some serious growing up to do with the flirting if your flirting with your boy friend that is great you should. However you’re in high school and every guy you meet your flirting with and feeling, sexual think about what you’re saying about your self. It is awesome to be gorgeous and popular and feel you can get any boy you want. However sexuality at your rate may end up in a little surprise under your belly button if you know what I mean. Even protection does not work 100% of the time. That and the emotional up and down of relationships is going to hurt you and others.
I am not say to settle down yet but once your in a relationship focus on that relationship and learn from not only the person your with but yourself. Learn about who you want to be not just who you want to get. It’s not just feelings it’s love. Love is a commitment of two people. They must come from a place of understanding of what makes them happy and than they can make each other happy.
Party is not always the best you get fat with all that sugar in the drinks and you have an age process that will rob you both of good looks and smarts. You may end up with some one new but you might have missed the experience of knowing them and worse of yourself. How about something more suitable and mature fun at the beach going for a walk in the park, hiking or some activity that you can learn about each other and what you like too.
2006-11-04 20:30:38 · answer #2 · answered by Panda Lover 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Girlfriend if your bf is in the Army and you still want to play the game then you need to be honest with him and let him go. So he can find someone that will be true to him and stand by him when he is deployed. If he hasn't been already. He will need you then more than you know. But if your not 100% beside him, then you need to tell him. Your going to find out that partying is not all that it is cracked up to be. So go drinking and puke your guts up, pass out by the toilet and really have fun. Pass up a good thing like your bf. Lets see, passing out by the toilet on one hand and a great guy on the other..Yeah that is a no brainer!
2006-11-04 20:18:53 · answer #3 · answered by ncamedtech 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hiya, I had a boyfriend that moved away to be interior the army...for the 1st 3 months recruitment it became loopy, i neglected him extraordinarily, i suffered in school and became continuously sulky. i became sixteen. We desperate to interrupt up after 5 months of him being in or maybe nonetheless it absolutly shattered me it became for the main suitable. Im 20 now and dont be apologetic approximately it. we are nonetheless close acquaintances and that i now have a sparkling boyfriend. in case you wised to stay with him it would be a distinctive tale in case you have been older or married....yet appreciate your adolescents!!
2016-10-03 07:21:13 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you already thought about cheating on him so why waste anymore of his time. Just end it before he gets hurt any worse. I hope losing the person you love is worth getting drunk and letting drunk horny guys feel you up. Whatever you do, I hope you think about things first. Good Luck!!!
2006-11-04 20:20:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well thats up to you.. But i will say if you're going to end it ,do it before he deploys..Dear John letters when you're at war suck.
2006-11-04 20:15:29 · answer #6 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you're even asking this question should give you your answer.
2006-11-04 20:15:23 · answer #7 · answered by Thomas C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe you do not love him at all.... maybe you got your emotions mixed up... if you can't wait for him, then tell it to him... he will understand and let you go find someone else better than him...
2006-11-04 20:24:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
that sucks...what happened to the 'I'll wait for you?"
I guess you'll both be dogging bullets...but of a different kind....may i remind you...both are deadly....
2006-11-04 20:16:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You mustn't force yourself! If you feel yourself noncomfortable then you must tell it to him!
It's only your life!
2006-11-04 20:17:00 · answer #10 · answered by woo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋