currently we r living seprately.i did arrange marriage.but his parents never liked me after marriage.i did alot but i cannot understand the reason.my husband is ok but when the time came to choose one he chosed his parents nd not me.some times i realized that my husband also dont like me otherwise he will not leave me.i cannot bear the taunts given by his parents on every little or big things.but my hubby want me to bear everything.he said to me everytime i will leave u but not my parents
2006-11-04 19:45:41 · 11 answers · asked by sweetu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
taureans & scorpions don't really go well together..they r definitly not soulmates...& u did the right thing by leaving him....if he would have been a sensible man he would not have said wat he said...its right that he should not leave his parents but also not his wife...afterall even he made the same promises that u did at the time of marriage...& if u don't wanna get divorced coz of wat people say then please just remember that they r not doing anything to help u out in ur marriage either...i hope everything works out for u
Its your life,live it your way.
2006-11-04 22:09:43 · answer #1 · answered by live_let.live 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would have been better if you had wanted to study zodiac signs and inter-relationship. But now that you are married, it need not be reviewed from that angle. All relationships succeed or break due to the concerned individuals. In your case, ask yourself, if you have done as much as you can to save the relationship. Then look at your partner's nature and try to learn and accept facts. If he does not want to choose to remain with you, you cannot tie him up.
Let him free and hope to have him again. If the separation only increases the space between you, learn to live apart. All of us come into the world alone and go alone !
2006-11-04 20:21:47 · answer #2 · answered by sujatha_sudhakaran 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is right you know, he is related to his parents by BLOOD, he cannot leave them, his DNA belongs to his parents, I truely know what you are going thru, I will give you the same advise I gave to my sister, I said to her, if you go to a new country, you try to learn the laws of that country and you do everything the laws of the country expect you to do. For a girl leaving her house and living in her husbands house is the similiar case. You go to a house with many strangers there, you try to understand the moods and qualities of each individual and approach them psychologically. You also ask the parents of your husband to define for you work atmosphere, duty fields, this way you at least know what is expected of you. If the parents are being overly cruel you can always point this out nicely and soberly to your husband once your duty boundries are defined. This is an educated approach to your problem, I am sure your husband loves you. But he is duty bound to choose his parents, they did for him a lot, when he was in need of them. YOUR HUSBAND WILL NEED YOU IN FUTURE TO HAVE A NICE life, so past dues are to be paid in full before future PROMISES of bliss and love can be cashed.
Hope you are a person, who understands logic behind human behaviour.
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2006-11-04 19:55:45 · answer #3 · answered by Syed M 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Irina, the answer is obvious of the 17 or so conflicts going on all around the world at this time it is the radical fundamentalist Muslims that are the fly in the ointment. Radical Islam can not get along with anybody or anything that will not submit to their beliefs. Radical Islam will be the cause of the nuclear world war which will be visited upon this earth.
2016-05-22 00:36:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cannot understand how it is an arranged marriage when you say that his parents does not like you. There is no love, even the arrangement went sour, then, there is no reason to stay any longer. Move on.
2006-11-05 22:07:56 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love all.
Do happy your father/mother in law.
Press their legs. Respect them.
Give them more love.
Serve them good dishes.
Do as per they want from you.
Your husband is right ! He should not leave his parents.
My words may seems to you bitter but this is all Gandhigiri about !
A small lean gandhi can fight with thousands of britishers then why cant you fight with 3 people ?
Spread Love and Get Love.
Best of Luck.
2006-11-04 21:50:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he's choosing his parents over you, you do not have a true marriage, you are the servant of the parents. Leave this overgrown child and find somone who will put you first.
2006-11-04 20:34:26 · answer #7 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
doesn't matter what signs you are...thats just hype...real marriages will work through the hard time...but also...some people are not meant to be together..if he wants to leave..he ows you something..financially, or your diary....arranged marriags are compensated when the husband leaves...unfortunaetly some marriages don't work out, because the two people are so different, don't ever thinkit's because a sign...people are people..not signs...
2006-11-04 19:54:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sweetu very sad dear im wd u, u can share ur problem wd me did u try u find reason why ur in laws don't like u?? try this n keep in touch wd ur husband .......don't ask ur hubby 2 choose 1 dear its tuff i think, just be wd ur hubby n try 2 make all situation possitive don't leave ur partner, he definately loves u .don't worry u will get ur hubby soon just call him n ask him that u want 2 come back 2 him .............he will respect ur dicision
2006-11-06 06:02:21 · answer #9 · answered by jagrati 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just Leave him only then he will understand your value in his life.
Set him free if he come back he is yours and love you if doesn't just say him to turn aroud KICK him and go ahead, life and world is not small
2006-11-04 21:02:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋