Ok my friend cheated on his gf with his ex for like 3 months back in march and at the end of his cheating his ex found out she was pregnant, but she didnt tell him. His gf he cheated on forgave him just as long as he didnt get the ex pregnant, everyone found out the ex was pregnant over the summer the ex told him it wasnt his cuz she was seeing another guy around the same time so everyone believed her and dropped it.But some time after that his gf started to find things out like they didnt use protection now she thinks its his and wants him to stop with the lies and just admit its his. He told her he doesnt know so she told him she hates the baby and wants to kill it and he yelled out "like hell youll kill my kid" then she snapped and left. What shout he do? How can I help him?
2006-11-04 17:45:11 · 8 answers · asked by slaphappy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, stay out of it, it's none of your business.
Second of all, a DNA test will prove who the father is, they need to get one.
2006-11-04 17:47:30 · answer #1 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend needs to grow up. Especially if he's going to be a father. He could start his journey to adulthood by always wearing protection when he has sex until he is sure he wants to be a dad.
Next thing he could do towards maturing himself, is to learn what it means to be trustworthy & faithfull.
He & his ex are screwed if he's the dad. He should insist on a paternity test, & decide what to do after he finds out the real truth.
His current Gf would be better off if she dumped him, I'm sorry but your friend is a loser.
2006-11-05 01:54:43 · answer #2 · answered by No More 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
very complicated! first thing your (friend) needs to do is get a dna test find out for shure it is him baby. The girlfriend that forgave him for cheating is hurt and probbly didn't mean it even thou she does sound extreme- take the dna test and go from there. If it is his baby the girlfreinds either accepts it and moves on with him or she leaves him and moves on-most important thing is finding out.
2006-11-05 01:50:24 · answer #3 · answered by southernchick340 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow, tough sitch.
no offense, but your friend sounds like a real jerk. in this kind of situation, theres no way no one can get hurt. either he does the duty to his child and goes back to his ex, or the duty to his gf, and apologieses.
if his ex still loves him, and he still loves her, he should go back to her.
if the ex doesn't love him, or want him to be the father of her child, she should consider abdoption.
just tell him to say i'm sorry about a million times and hope for the best.
2006-11-05 01:51:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be there for him if he is upset. He shouldnt be upset over someone who wants to kill babies.
2006-11-05 01:48:07 · answer #5 · answered by AussieGal777 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave his girlfriend and find out if his ex's child is his and then f it is his child then he should be reponsible for him...
2006-11-05 01:47:37 · answer #6 · answered by sadgreeneyes3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your FRIEND *WINK WINK* huh? Yeah. well, basicly YOUR FRIEND *wink wink* is screwed my friend, quite literaly.
2006-11-05 01:52:37 · answer #7 · answered by The Big D 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him to slap her
2006-11-05 01:49:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋