A few weeks ago I hooked up with this girl who I met online. I spent the night but had to leave the next morning. She did not want me to leave (tried repeatedly to talk me into staying, was visibly upset about me leaving, begged me to stay, was pissed cause I didn't). I kissed her goodbye and left.
Well, I get home that day and she IM's me on the dating site we met on but suddenly ends the conversation, saying almost exactly the same thing I said when I had to leave.
So she is online for 5-6 days afterwards and hasn't been online again since. I sent her a message since then, but she has obviously not read it yet.
She knows I don't like calling her (roomates). Should I call her or let it go?
Normally I would say that this is a game, but she didn't play any games before and didn't strike me as that type.
Let me know if you need more details.
2006-11-04 17:33:28 · 15 answers · asked by Jamal J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it's a little weird that she was pissed when you needed to leave the next morning. It's almost insecure. When she cut you off on the phone it does sound like a game. I bet she is waiting to see if you call her, not IM. If you really like her, get over the issue of calling her place and give her a buzz. Otherwise sooner or later I'm sure she'll call you. Be careful....it seems too soon for her to be so over the top about you not staying longer.
2006-11-04 17:39:31 · answer #1 · answered by jblonde 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok heres my advice to you,,,,if you really like her..call her or go and see her and see whats there bewteen the two of you..with you leavin the next mornign for whatever reason..she thought that u only wanted one thing, and we all know waht that is.and if you think there is something between the two fo you go for it.
BUT if you dont' really have feelings for her then just let it go, find someone else move on..and u never know the reason why she hasn't been on line could be because sh'es found someone else as well..U need to find out or jsut move on yourlsef and just leave her alone
2006-11-04 17:37:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's playing the game. She just didn't like the fact that you didn't stay when she wanted you too and she felt dissed. So she basically turned the tables on you and made you feel dissed so that she could feel better. Leave her alone, she's playing the game.
2006-11-04 17:36:21 · answer #3 · answered by KieraSimone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm sound like she wasn't satisfy with the sex, that's why she wanted to you to stay to see if it would get better . She figured well hes not worth it , not long enough not strong enough to work that back out for her. I wouldn't sweat her let things precipitate for a week or so.
2006-11-04 17:38:20 · answer #4 · answered by streetkritic 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sex changes everything. She sounds like a troubled game player. Cut her loose. Run.......run very quickly in the opposite direction!
2006-11-04 17:36:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow some balls and call the chick. It's obvious you're into her. Not to mention "been into her." Do the right thing. She gave you something special (i'm hoping,) and you gave her something special too, (i'm hoping.) There's only one way to know.imho
2006-11-04 17:38:38 · answer #6 · answered by eauneua 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should call her! If she was visibly upset! I feel horrible when that happens and I don't eat and end up in the hospital!! It sucks! So call her because well girls are sensitive!
2006-11-04 17:36:27 · answer #7 · answered by brown eyed gurl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
probable only potential that 'your distinctive' like no longer the comparable, as somethin. probable bout sumthin this is dumb. it somewhat is stable to be distinctive (from time to time). least you at the instant are not pretend/tryin to b like different ppl.
2016-10-21 07:09:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds a bit like she has a few issues so if I were you, I'd just let her go.
2006-11-04 17:34:58 · answer #9 · answered by Nicky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's not true love on chat rooms and the internet.
2006-11-04 17:36:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋