Ok I asked for help on this but I want to hear different opinions. Here is my story and please give me ur best advice. I met this girl when we started school. We're both college students and i only see her twice a week. She broke up with her bf not too long ago. Its weird, when i met this girl i had no interests in her maybe cuz she had a bf, but whenever we talk we sort of get into arguments about sports and we laugh about it, I can feel the chemistry. Last week i got a chance to talk to her after class for a long time, just me and her, her friend notice us talking and said we look like a nice couple. I really want to ask this girl out but im scared, after that long talk we had i just cant get her out of my head! That one talk for sum odd reason just made me fall for her. I remember in class when i was walking back to my seat, she looked at me and laughed but i notice she looks at me time from time in class. What do I do?, I really like this girl and I feel shes the one. Please help!
2006-11-04 17:30:39 · 8 answers · asked by Krazydude111 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Start with a casual date. Just a coffee or something. Something that she knows will be short 20 or 30 minutes. She is more likely to say yes, and you can see if there is anything there for you to build on.
2006-11-04 17:34:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just so you know, it's possible that the friend mentioning that you two are a cute couple could have been a set up - she might already like you and had her friend say something like that to plant the idea in your head. Or maybe not...
Sounds like she is at least into you if she is willing to talk to you so much. Start out casually, ask her to do something with just you after class or something - get some coffee or whatever while talking about class. See how that goes and proceed from there. Good luck!
2006-11-05 01:35:36 · answer #2 · answered by starlet_8 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should wait some time to tell her how you feel. If she broke up with her bf recently, she will most likely tell you that it's too soon for her to be in a relationship again OR that she might still have feelings for this guy. During this time you can look for small things that she does to make you know if she is also interested. If you do watch her moves, don't overdue it. I'm not saying stalk her, but when you talk to her . Oh and another thing: do not tell her that you feel she's the one, at least not yet because that would just make her feel like she's in an awkward situation and if she doesn't like you she'll most likely try to stay away from you! : )
2006-11-05 01:45:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude this is bizarre to say the least. I am in virtually the same situation: undergrad, 'chemistry' with girl from a class, etc. Except for the fact that I do not really know of her past relationships. I also feel that she is the one for me, but I dont know what to do. I hope these fools give us some good answers.
2006-11-05 01:34:42 · answer #4 · answered by mikhailarkov 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out with confidence. Girls don't like guys who are wusses and beat around the bush. She'll lose interest quickly if you don't show you've got some backbone. Get in there and just DO IT!
2006-11-05 01:34:35 · answer #5 · answered by TrainerMan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she might like u too, why don't u ask her for her number ad you can talk more. Might be the love of your life. Are u willing to give up that chance just because u are nervouse?
2006-11-05 01:35:47 · answer #6 · answered by southernchick340 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL I THINK THAT YOU SHOULD ASK HER OUT OR ASK HER OUT AND HANG OUT WITH HER AND SEE WHERE THAT TAKES YOU GUYS MAYBE YOU COULD END UP BEING WITH HER WELL GOOD LUCK
2006-11-05 01:37:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anacari M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it! You have nothing to lose!
2006-11-05 01:33:24 · answer #8 · answered by Jeru_Salem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋