I always wandered what drives people that live poor, in lack of health, food, infrastructure,..., to have many children. I know sometimes it is religion, but I would like to dig deeper here. I know it is also poverty, lack of knowledge, lack of education on contraception, so I am focusing on religion and its role. An example (due to the sensitivity of the issue, I will not state the country): religious people do not work here, do not pay taxes, and live really in modesty, many times in hunger. But their religion tells them to have many children, therefore many of religious families have more than 8 children - who live poor, in lack of food, lack of proper education,... I do not understand this. I myself love children, would love to have 4, but do not have job, I am 28, therefore I do not want to have my first child yet. Even if my religion is telling me 'children are a gift from God', I am sorry, but to me it is not responsible to have them yet or to have many. ?????
2006-11-04
17:24:12
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No, I do not refer to Mormonism, I live far away from USA. They could be an example, but I don't know whether they live poor, are they able to educate their kids, etc.
2006-11-04
17:31:14 ·
update #1
To 'skylolo'. No, I did not mean people in Africa. Who am I or anyone to tell people not to have children at all? All I am saying, have them as many as you can support them, educate them, 'give' them bright future. Or have one, two or three, which makes the difference of having them eight, for example. But you are right, not having job should not be the reason not to have them. But I feel insecure and I cannot make this decision. My thoughts were - why children should, have to suffer, when there is food only for three or four kids, and not for seven or more.
2006-11-04
20:45:02 ·
update #2