my boyfriend and i broke up and i confided in his best friend. me and my boyfriend got back together since then but have had a continuing relationship with his friend. we've fallen for each other but i still love my boyfriend and im not quite sure what to do. is this wrong?
2006-11-04 17:21:43 · 10 answers · asked by manda 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes, stop talking to the dude's friend imediately. You loved the first guy, respect him enough to NOT take away his buddy. If you go with the friend, the first dude will never respect you...or his buddy.... ever. And the second guy will figure you;ll do the same to him, so he'll never trust you. Quit whoring around and do them both a favor and quit seeing them both.
2006-11-04 17:32:14 · answer #1 · answered by Foss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is wrong, but the grass always seems greener on the other side of the fence, and sometimes, it truly is greener, but that doesnt mean you should destroy what you already have. I've been down this road and unfortunatly i was the best friend. it was a horrible thing for me to do but it was also a bad thing to do on her part. eventually all three of us found out and we stopped seeing each other all together...DONT TAKE THAT PATH! be honest about your feelings and as long as your honest and the other two are honest, then thats all you can do.
2006-11-04 17:30:33 · answer #2 · answered by xred_dawnx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be sure of your feelings before you do anything. Are you sure you don't feel close to the best friend because of the help he gave you through the hard times? Is it just a passing crush? If you are sure you have genuine feelings for him you need to tell your boyfriend. It will be hard, but the pain of him finding out the other way is worse!
2006-11-04 17:27:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly, for starters, unload that pathetic chum. cheating is incorrect regardless of in case you're youthful, previous, male, or female. do no longer start up stepping into the back of your boyfriend's lower back and doing stuff along with his chum. that would make you in basic terms as low as him. rather, ruin up with him first and progressively circulate right into a courting along with his chum. reckoning on y'all's an prolonged time, the boyfriend might get mad on the final chum for courting the female chum and the final chum will unload you to get his ultimate chum lower back, that;s how life works. yet once you 2 take it sluggish and hassle-free, your boyfriend will circulate directly to cheat on somebody else and you and his ultimate chum would be satisfied:) sturdy success
2016-11-27 19:45:31 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is wrong. the only good part about it is that the best friend will tell on your bf in a heart beat!
Hang in there.
2006-11-04 17:24:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What should you do? Learn the difference between love and infatuation/lust.
Love is a decisive commitment.
2006-11-04 17:27:01 · answer #6 · answered by smittie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may not go out with you because you went out with his friend. And girl that is called cheating. You beter pick before they find out cause if they do you might be alone.
2006-11-04 17:26:23 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Confused♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, of course it's not "wrong." god, i hate when people cast extremes onto things (like the first two answerers there). it sounds preachy and judgemental.
you just need to decide which one you want to be with, tell the one you don't want to be with what's going on, and then be with that person without any cheating.
love triangles are tough... i wish you luck and happiness. :)
2006-11-04 17:27:55 · answer #8 · answered by vanillamist 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't toy with thermotions, a guy can be sensitive to. Trust me, I was in a situation like this, and still am, only, I was the guy.
2006-11-04 17:25:33 · answer #9 · answered by Jeru_Salem 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah! this is wrong!
2006-11-04 17:25:01 · answer #10 · answered by love....me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋