Should I call her and tell her that i miss her and love her and would like to attempt to be together again? She does have a bf, but do you think she thinks of me? Do I cross her mind like she does mine? ALL THE TIME~
2006-11-04 17:21:24 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh, and I havent seen her or heard from her at all over this past year after we broke up.
2006-11-04 17:22:04 · update #1
Thanks for the answers. Yes, she broke us up. I just can not get over it, thats all.
2006-11-04 17:32:32 · update #2
I don't know how the relationship ended but she probably does think about every now and again I mean you two were going to get married. The first step is to think is she still who you want to be with... if so then take that step tell her how you feel about her then back off and let every thing fall into place. Some times relationships take a lot of sharp curves in the road and couples don't know how to handle the problem on hand and give up I know b/c I have been there. The guy I am getting married to has broke my heart twice and we got back together b/c we loved each other that much and I hope sweetie everything works out for you like you want them too.
2006-11-04 17:35:14 · answer #1 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not? What do you have to lose. The worst she can say is she has moved on. But she may miss you to but doesn't have the courage to contact you. It's truly is what we don't do or say that we regret. You'll be no worse off than you are now and who knows you both might get that second chance. But that can never happen if you don't at least try. Good luck.
2006-11-04 17:26:29 · answer #2 · answered by Chard P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's never too late to let someone know that they are missed and thought about often. You should tell her and that way you'll know if she feels the same. As long as there's no ring on her finger, she's available. Either you'll get the closure that you need to move on, or you'll get a wonderful surprise and a new start on an old relationship. I wish you luck!
2006-11-04 17:24:38 · answer #3 · answered by Cynthia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO that is a stupid idea you don't know who or what her new boyfriend is for all you know she could b having a baby in a few months or days. Even if that all wasn't happening then you still shouldn't call her and besides there are lots of women out there that you could possibly marry or have your own kids with. I say get on with your life like she did and don't waste your time waiting for someone when you could be out dating. I know that you will met someone you like just as much as you liked her and who knows you could met someone tomorrow.GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!
2006-11-04 17:32:28 · answer #4 · answered by courtney n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on why you broke up.
If you ended it, then sure... call her and say that you just wanted to see how she's doing. Since she's now in a new relationship, it would be inappropriate to say "I miss you"... you would only be making yourself vulnerable to silence on her end.
You never know, she might be hoping that you'd call.
If she broke up with you, still call just to "see how she's doing."
Again, you never know what may happen. Just be sure to respect her new relationship and show your concern for her well-being.
Life is too short not to call her. Good luck!
2006-11-04 17:24:21 · answer #5 · answered by ♪ ♥ ♪ ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tough call dude. you should probably know the answer to this already. how did it end? was it mutual, or was she adament about ending it. it's been a year, and thats really not enough time to really get over someone when the breakup wasnt your choice. but, if you call her and are rejected, you wound will just open up again. i would say, just move on, you will get over her.
2006-11-04 17:24:55 · answer #6 · answered by angelfan7142004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she already has a boyfriend, then she isn't available. If you are really lonely and yearning for companionship, then you should spend your energy going out and meeting other available women.
You can miss your ex-fiance all you want and you can even tell her that you miss her but you shouldn't tell her to leave her current boyfriend for you. That is her decision.
2006-11-04 17:28:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say go for it but be careful because you don't want to show up in someones life after so long and expect it all to go back to normal. she's started a new life without you and she may be dating someone else. and if that's the case ease up because it's never good to ruin someones relationship. but, if you truly love her and you believe things could truly work this time around i say call her.
2006-11-04 17:24:14 · answer #8 · answered by manda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way dude, get past her. Don't give her the satisfaction of crawling back. There are lotsa women out there.
2006-11-04 17:23:55 · answer #9 · answered by GuZZiZZit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her find out was it going up with her find out if she has a bf if she does stay in touch with her and if she doesn't have one ask her out.
2006-11-04 17:28:20 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Confused♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋