What i'm tryin to ask is if i go to church every sunday and do many curch like things. Is it wrong for me to still be Bi? Do you think God shuns me for this?
2006-11-04 17:20:19 · 38 answers · asked by Salena W 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
See some people would see being bisexual as wrong, especially some catholics. The way I see it is that first if God does see it as wrong, Jesus died for our sins and you will be forgiven. But the way I see it is that God created all, right? So, he created you to be a certain way and other people to be straight, lesbian, gay, or bisexual...whatever. If God creates all beings why would he create you to be bisexual and then punish you for it. It just doesn't make sense so that's why I believe that God loves you for who you are because he created you to be that way.
2006-11-04 17:24:37 · answer #1 · answered by Angela M 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Yes, it is still wrong for you to be bisexual. The Bible clearly states that any unnatural for a woman to have those kind of relations. I don't think He would shun you, but you will not be able to enter the kingdom of God because of your lifestyle. Just because you go to church every first day of the week and do many church things, you could still be damned for eternity if you don't have a relationship with Christ.
2006-11-04 17:36:58 · answer #2 · answered by Kevin W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is starting to irritate me!
I believe in God and i know hes my savior. I know that to many its wrong to be gay or bi or lez or even trans. So what? Im an evangelist and im bisexual, well not really i dont date girls but i dont mind sleeping with them! ;)
But if i can recall, in the bible god said that we must love each other. How can you love when there is no acceptance? How can you have acceptance and no compassion? Then you are no child of God. God told the people that were throwing rocks at the prostitute; if you are free of sin throw the first rock. So that goes to anyone, just because you dont agree with something does not mean that you have to judge it and sterotype it. It means to just respect it.
God said also in the bible that he made us and he loves us. It also says that he is mercyful and that he knew how we were going to be even before we were created. So think about it, if God knew you were to be that way from the moment you were born then he loves you and you are his child. You are part of him.
I personally believe that the bible are only stories, that try to teach us morals and ect. But if God said that man sins due to his nature. And the bible has thuosands of years on Earth, then what makes you think that bible has not being edited out hundreds of times???
2006-11-04 17:36:37 · answer #3 · answered by diana li 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God is Love, yes this is true but what does this really mean.
Does it mean that he will let you do anything you want because it makes you feel good. Or does he love you enough to be like a father or mother who has had life experience and knows what is best for you even if you can't see that for yourself at the moment. Yes God is love but he is also just.
What did Jesus say about sexual sin.
“You have heard that it was said by them of old time, You shall not commit adultery: But I say to you, that whosoever looks on a woman to lust after her has committed adultery with her already in his heart” Matthew 5:27,28
Jesus really turns up the heat on the seventh commandment, saying it is not just the action but also the thought that condemns us.
It is not just sexual sin that condemns us, ask yourself.
Have you ever told a lie?
If yes you have broken the 9th commandment.
Have you ever stolen anything? (no mater what the value)
If yes you have broken the 8th commandment.
I could keep going with the rest or you could go to
http://www.wayofthemaster.com/goodperson.shtml
Yes God is a God of love but he is also just and there must be punishment for our sin. That punishment is hell.
This should concern us very much as it is what we all deserve. Because we have all sinned and rebelled against God.
But here is where Gods love comes in. He sent his only son born of a virgin. Lead a sinless life died on the cross taking the punishment for us. Then he rose from the dead on the third day defeating death.
What must we do to receive this gift? We must repent, that is turn from our sins and put our trust in Jesus Christ.
Now Salena you must ask yourself does God consider bisexuality as a sin? Quiet clearly he does.
Does God love sinners? Yes, enough to die for them.
Do you truly love God?
Are you loving God knowing what he has done for us, when you continue living in a lifestyle of sin?
Remember God wants our obedience more that he wants our worship.
I know it is hard to give up things that we find pleasurable and it is a constant battle to do what is right. But a battle it should be a battle against our own fleshly desires.
Paul said in Galatians 5:16-26
16 Walk in the Spirit, and you shall not fulfill the lust of the flesh. 17 For the flesh lusts against the Spirit, and the Spirit against the flesh; and these are contrary to one another, so that you do not do the things that you wish. 18 But if you are led by the Spirit, you are not under the law.
19 Now the works of the flesh are evident, which are: adultery,[b] fornication, uncleanness, lewdness, 20 idolatry, sorcery, hatred, contentions, jealousies, outbursts of wrath, selfish ambitions, dissensions, heresies, 21 envy, murders,[c] drunkenness, revelries, and the like; of which I tell you beforehand, just as I also told you in time past, that those who practice such things will not inherit the kingdom of God.
22 But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, 23 gentleness, self-control. Against such there is no law. 24 And those who are Christ’s have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires. 25 If we live in the Spirit, let us also walk in the Spirit. 26 Let us not become conceited, provoking one another, envying one another.
Godbless
I will be praying for you.
2006-11-04 18:19:05 · answer #4 · answered by Heath 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I go to Church every Saturday and I try and do what God wants me to but I keep messing up the same thing over and over. I know I am not suppose to do it, I know that it is against God's love and I love God and he has shown mercy and grace to me in a multitude of ways.
God does not shun you - he loves you! He wants us to follow his word but ain't none of us Jesus we are just real people trying. Is it wrong to be bi-sexual, yes according to scripture but I am still doing wrong things to so you will get no judgement from me.
Your question could have been "Is it wrong to be a sinner, will God still love me?" Yes
2006-11-04 17:26:29 · answer #5 · answered by freemansfox 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Awwhh! i detect you very inspiring (: i'm bisexual too & have been with my lady buddy on account that July '09, that's 6 months. Our annoversary replaced into on the fifteenth (: I made her a video an she cried (in a stable way of direction lol) xD i comprehend i'm basically 15, yet i'm extremely in love with this woman & i'm definately gonna marry her. have faith me, there's no longer something incorrect with that, only such as you suggested, love isn't in accordance with gender. Oh and don't difficulty approximately that chick who has "50 years journey". She suggested i'm a lesbian too - no that there is something incorrect with that. yet yeah, she suggested i might % to sleep with different women and men, which i got here across extremely offensive reason my gf is the only one i like. in any case, stable success inclusive of your woman. i'm hoping all of it works out for you hun. save your head up intense and don't EVER supply up (:
2016-10-21 07:09:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's wrong but God doen't shun anyone. God loves us all no matter what....the only question is whether we love him and yes, even though you're bisexual it's good to love God.....God accepts us as long as we accept Him. God knows we aren't perfect. Keep searching though. I think it's good that you even asked the question.
2006-11-04 17:24:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong to be bisexual (from an ethical, social and basically legal point of view) and it's not wrong to love god (from any of those points of view). So if neither of them is wrong, the combination must be right too.
2006-11-04 17:27:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't wrong to love God. But he wants you to resist the temptation of the devil and obey Him and His Word. The devil has evidently found your week spot. But you have a choice in this matter. You do not have to choose to do wrong. Resist the devil everytime the thoughts come to mind, in the name of Jesus. Good luck. Ask your pastor to help. He would love to, that's what he is there for.
2006-11-04 17:25:34 · answer #9 · answered by suzyQ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, if you are not married it is taking what does not belong to you, and if you are married, then you would be committing adultery, either way
(Ephesians45:5) (1Corinthians6:13).
Going to church is not the way to please God and get his approval have to repent and turn around to doing God's will and do his will,so as John17:3 says you need to take in accurate Bible knowledge and learn what God's will is, then follow it closely to change your path from unrighteousness to righteousness! So really all depends on if you want to please God or please yourself in which case you woul't really care if you go against God's word the Bible! Peace be with you
2006-11-04 17:37:13 · answer #10 · answered by I speak Truth 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋