My boyfriend has been out of town for 3 days. When I think about it him being away I almost start to cry. But then when he calls, I'm like irratated at him because all he blabs about is how much fun he's having. I'm happy he's having a good time but I also feel like he's rubbing it in my face at the same time. I just feel when he gets back I won't be as exciting as his visit with his friends. I want to know why I feel both ways and what I can do about the situation? I know it's not a big deal but I still want input.
2006-11-04 17:00:47 · 11 answers · asked by bri 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's not rubbing it in your face, he just doesn't realize how much you miss him.
Sure, he's going to have fun with his friends but he'll still have fun with you. He probably misses you too but doesn't want to admit it, guys are like that.
2006-11-04 17:02:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how you feel. i used to be the exact same way. did you have trust issues in the past? you honestly do miss him, and you love him so much! i cant tell./9 You're getting mad because you want him to tell you how much he misses you and wants to see you, but more then likely he doesnt, right? its kind of a jealousy thing too. you dont want him to have fun without you. i used to be like that to, i always wanted to be with him and want him to have fun only with me. and he's not rubbing it in your face, be lucky that he's telling you what he's doing and not telling you anything. if he wasnt telling you anything, he may be hiding something. and he will be very excited to see you! make you set up a day where you can spend with just the two of you!
good luck. =)
2006-11-04 17:08:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You miss him like crazy! Believe me. You're also kinda jealous because he is having so much fun without you. He should miss you too much to have any fun right??!? lol. Well, a guy needs his space. he'll be back in no time. A guy just can't do without a girl to complete him.
God Bless you two!
2006-11-04 17:03:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-03-19 03:39:42 · answer #4 · answered by Shane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you dont know how you feel to be honest. So he cant go away and have a good time without you or you will be a bi@tchy from what you wrote. In the same token, you say you are going to CRY because he went away for 3-5 days or whatever? Are you that needy? Also, you are already judging how he will act when he comes to visit. It sounds like this isnt the guy for you at all. Go find someone who will be better suited for you I guess.
2006-11-04 17:05:22 · answer #5 · answered by Thumper 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have the right to feel that way. You're sad, and he's just making you feel worse. Don't put yourself down. Talk to your boyfriend. Tell him what you told us.
2006-11-04 17:08:43 · answer #6 · answered by Jammy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
im in the same boat... the only diff. is im the one that is away... the only reason y u feel that way is because u feel for him wen u dont hear fr him but wen u do the jealousy kick in... u act all crazy... dont know what to say but act in a way u dont expect... ur not w/him u cant c what he's doin!!! look if u feel the disrespect then y even go thru w/being w/him... one ounce of concern its not meant to be... its hard but a man can not think like a woman!!! if it was like that then every couple would only have 1 real relationship... u have to be open-minded and have lots of trust... if u dont have that then u will always act like that!!! u will never get ur answer... tell him it bothers u... wait for his reaction... go by that... then u will kno if he cares bout u or not...
good luck... fyi... i let my man go bcuz i couldnt take the pressure of being confused and in love...
2006-11-04 17:17:28 · answer #7 · answered by yng53524jae 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ur bf called u, that means he has u in his mind always and he he wanna share his good times with u.love should have a strong position, it shouldn't get less for these little things. different man shows there feelings by different ways, ur bf is happy with his friends that doesn't mean that he has less feelings for u. i hope u have got ur ans.
2006-11-04 17:14:34 · answer #8 · answered by lalin 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I love it. You are so much in contact with your feelings, i think it is great. My input is that either your bf does not actually love you as much as you love him, or is lacking in vocal expression of his feelings. Either way, talk to him and tell him how you felt and judge his reaction.
2006-11-04 17:04:35 · answer #9 · answered by seek_fulfill 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is not rubbing it in your face, he loves you and want to share everything with you. You just miss him. You will be just fine when he gets home.
2006-11-04 17:02:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋