Hello again campers, and welcome to my thread. I seem to have a bit of a problem, see. This girl in my class recently approached me and asked me out to lunch. We went. We then went again a week later, and have been doing a couple other things as well after class. The thing is, sometimes she seems more detached, and other times she seems very into it all. I am just rather confused. She is actually about 3 years older than I, but a physical attraction as well as an ever-increasing "chemistry" has marked the past few weeks. She even recently asked if I would go with her out of the country for a month this summer. Input is highly requested --but preferrably only by educated, experienced responders. Please, none of you high-school kiddies and the like. Over and out.
2006-11-04 16:53:32 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah, messing with your head. They all love their little mind-games.
Being open and honest just doesn't occur to them.
2006-11-04 16:57:47 · answer #1 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
high school kiddies and the like?
while I'm a "highschool kiddie" but I'm going to offer my opinion. If you like this girl I think that you should probably go with her. The reason she's probably detatched some times is because she has a life beyond you and her and she is thinking about a problem or something like that... anyway, if you haven't made a move I suggest you do before the chemistry dies out completely. Also, assuming of course you are out of high school by the statement I mentioned at the top, three years shouldn't make a huge problem
2006-11-04 16:57:35 · answer #2 · answered by pat 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I do alot of research so I consider myself educated...
Now then. Things like this are usually pretty simple, but your post didnt really match your title too much actually. Claimed in your title that the girl is messing with your head, but said you two have a chemistry lately. Either way. You always have an option, whether it is physically or mentally, or both. If you thing this girl is twisted and she is making you feel either insecure, extremely confused about yourself, angry, or if being around her seems to produce some sort of negative chemical reaction more often than not... Simply do NOT hang around her. There are plenty of people to choose from. If you are comfortable around her lately and there is this social connection, I would take the trip out of the country with her in a heartbeat. Because that is where you two go from friends into hot *** sex partners. Do yourself a favor and go.
2006-11-04 17:01:23 · answer #3 · answered by Sir 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The more she likes you, the shyer she gets, thats probably why shes not so attached at times. It sounds good to me
2006-11-04 16:56:27 · answer #4 · answered by S--slick 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋