What do I do about this???

Question

I was out at a bar tonight, watching a band. I walked outside to smoke. I looked over, and there she was... I don't know how I know, but there she was, on the other side of the fence. She was absolutely perfect. I knew so much about her the moment we looked at each other. I immediately dropped my cigarette, looked at her and walked inside, noticing that she got up and walked inside too. I looked around for her, and couldn't find her, so I figured maybe she had caught the eye of someone behind me, so I gave up. I went back up to the band, and after a few minutes, I felt someone touch my arm. I turned around, and it was her. We started to dance, and she looked at me, expecting me to say something, but I was dumbfounded. So I went straight to the point, no small talk. I told her, "I thought I was never going to see you again... and I don't think I could've lived with that. Yet here you are, and I don't even know what to say, except that looking at you was like finding out I can fly...

What's your name?"
"Mia" she said. (There's a long story behind that name, and I wouldn't have a dream come true any other way.)

She smiled at what I said, and we went on to talk about everything, and I mean everything. I couldn't believe how much I enjoyed talking to her, and how it felt so comfortable. I never would have I could have ever deserved even 5 minutes with a perfection like that! But there she was. Her friends came along, and one of them gave her a dirty look. I asked what it was for, and she told me that the girl was her boyfriend's sister. And the plane came crashing down...

She said that she had never thought about breaking up with him, until the moment she remembered she was with him, after we had been talking. I'm not that great of a guy, but there was a connection there that novelists write about. It was the most incredible moment of my life.

I have a girlfriend too, but I can't stand her anymore. I don't want to lose whatever it was I had with this girl.

I said good-bye, reluctantly, but as she was walking out, she stopped by me and gave me her number and got mine. She told me to wait until she calls me, if she calls me. When she handed me the piece of paper, I saw an engagement ring on her finger. An engagement ring! I didn't ask about it, but I knew what it meant.

You know, they say that once a man has experienced paradise, he will go mad the moment it is taken from him. I am going to go crazy. I have no clue when she'll call me or for that matter, if she'll call me. Should I trust that if things happen between the two of us that she won't do the same thing to me? Can I honestly do this to her boyfriend... cough... fiance??? I feel so guilty, and yet I wouldn't miss this opportunity if it meant the end of the world. I want to talk to her. Should I contact her some other way? I feel like a crazy stalker guy or something, but she was the epitome, no, the quintessence of perfection. WHAT DO I DO???

I know, right?

Answer 1

sounds like a..... wat was it called, i forgot oh it was love at first site i guess well never give up on someone u love, and think is perfect, try to find her, don't give up if u thnk she is perfect, if she was perfect u would have went lookingfor her, u give up too easy, so if i walked up to her and said care to dance, would u let me take her or would u stand up and say no, she is mines, well htink bout it and dont give up man, sh it now that i read the additional thing, it does sound sorta like a romance book, well if this true, go look for her and sh it, or call her and tell her how u feel and that u'll be better than her current bf, oh yeah make sure her bf isn't a ring leader of something of a don of a mafia or a son of some one high rank, so yeah or they will hunt u down

Answer 2

I to think it sounds like something out of a book. But if it's true then I would say stick it out for a week to 10 days if you don't hear back then maybe give it a fallow up it's up to her to tell you to go away and to keep up with her boyfriend, a ring means nothing if she's not married. If she's that right then trust her, if she said not to call her then don't for a while. If she felt it then her life is almost hell right now so let her come to you.

Answer 3

Was the reason you liked her physical? I don't think so, the way your talking, but had to ask. Anyway, don't feel guilty, sure it could be infatuation, but it could also be love. We can't help who we feel attracted to. I do think you should make sure to use your head as well as your heart. Have a "friendly coffee date" If she feels the same way that you do, you never know, maybe she'll decide your the one andc cancel the marriage, maybe not. Keep in mind this simple advice. If it's meant to happen, it will. Some story you got though. Good luck.

Answer 4

well if this is true, you are doing nothing wrong. She knows the responsiblity that comes with that ring on her finger. If she deciedes to cheat on him with you. I recomend that you treat her like a freind with benefits. Just think if she does this to her future husband what will stop her from doing the same to you, assuming that you and her get into a serious relationship.

Answer 5

wow, that my friend sux. Just wait it out, dont count on her to call you, just keep on goin like you were, go back to that same place again and she if she is there. If she is make sure she knows that your there, walk by closely, but dont make it obvious. Just be subtle about it cuz her "boyfriend" might be around. But yea, i dont think she would have given you her number if she didnt want to talk to you again, just wait it out, it might be the best thing you have ever done.

Answer 6

Sounds like something out of a book.

Answer 7

Wake up,take a shower,then go to your dead end job at the quickie mart.

Answer 8

Yup out of book!!!

Answer 9

think with your mind, she could dump u too

Answer 10

You should drink some more you pansy sap.