I met this guy on facebook who goes to the same school as myself. We started texting but it did not go so well because I told him that if he was expected something he was going to be dissappointed and he would not answer my questions like why he wanted to meet me. Four days later he texts me and we eventually agree to meet in a public place. He asked my about my previous relationships and it seem like maybe he wanted more than sex. However, when I talked on the phone with him he asked me what I wanted and I told him a lot of things and that why he only tries to see me when it is night time. He told me that he would let me go because maybe he is moving too fast for me. Another time I talked to him he asked if I wanted to kiss him. I said no because I don't know him. The latest text he sent me was four days ago and he text that I had to promise a kiss or he was not coming to see me. I told him jokingly I could not do that and he has not text me in four days. I'm sorry this is so long.
2006-11-04 15:56:53 · 5 answers · asked by aisha r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I meant to say we go to different colleges in Atlanta. He goes to a men's college. Thanks
2006-11-04 15:58:29 · update #1
he takes you to a dinner and a movie?
roller skaking?
the beach
out with friends.
or many of a thousand different ways.
or he may just call around 11 - 12 pm want to come over and watch tv, have sex and then be back in the bars without you before last call.
2006-11-04 16:09:40 · answer #1 · answered by Tim D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He said you had to promise him for a kiss? What kind of guy is that? Sounds like he just wants to tap and gap it. If he was really into you I think he would try and find something in common with you and try and spend a lot of time with you. 'Night time visitors' visit for one reason, and it ain't to play a game of cards. lol I think he trying to suss out if you could be a booty call or another notch on his belt, he could have asked about your previous relationships just to suss out what sort of person you are if he was going to gap it on you. But be flattered he obviously finds you attractive! If a guy wants more they wouldn't pressure you for a kiss, that is playing games or that one mischievous guy! lol
2006-11-05 00:42:49 · answer #2 · answered by Starjarus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he just wants a booty call, if he wanted more he would make actual dates including an activity and a time earlier than night.
2006-11-04 23:59:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The whole thing sounds strange to me, but this is a different generation. Why would someone ask what the other wants from them before they even meet?
Forget him.
2006-11-05 00:08:13 · answer #4 · answered by Nort 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out for a bite to eat or bowling. Something that doesn't involve the bedroom. Then you'll see what kind of guy he really is. Don't rush into things.
2006-11-05 00:00:03 · answer #5 · answered by imasooite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋