I am going through a difficult time right now. I am seperated from my husband because he cheated on me with an 18 yr old girl.
I won't get into it, but if you want to know, check my last question for details. Anyway, I am 39 years old. I noticed that alot of men are very attracted to young girls and no longer want women closer to their age. I personally think it's disgusting for a man 40+ to be with a girl as young as 18 or 19 or even 20, but it seems that all the men are heading in that direction. Why?
Those girls are still maturing physically and emotionally and it's wrong for those men to take advantage of them while they are so young and naive.
What's wrong with women 35+ ?
Are there any men out there who still like them?
I am 39 and am in great shape and take great care of myself. I'm not going to brag but I know i'm attractive and i'm confident. Young girls lack confidence, experience, maturity, and so much more, that's why they should be with men who are in their age range.
2006-11-04 15:54:54 · 11 answers · asked by azirah b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Women in their 30s and 40s, who are attractive, drive me wild. I can see how you would be insecure after being cheated on, but you must know that a good amount of guys are hot for women your age. I'm in my 30s and even when I was single, I didn't chase girls around. Give me a woman and leave the girls for the boys.
Yes, a lot of older men chase girls around, but it's their own insecurities that drive them that way. They can't cut it with a mature woman, so they try to control a 20 year old. Enjoy your new freedom I say.
2006-11-04 16:06:20 · answer #1 · answered by Griff 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
A male is biologically programmed to most desire ripe, and the closest to being fresh fruit, no mater if he is way younger than or way older than.
That would translate to females from sexual maturity to 25 years,
For under age boys and men of any age, as being the most desirable.
As the man reaches his late 40's plus, the maximum age will raise to include women in there early 30's to be somewhat desirable.
At your age of 39, you would be lucky to find a man to be interested in you sexually, that is in his 50's. Just watch who you are getting prolonged looks from lately.
It has always been this way but, with the demise of morality all bets are off.
You should not have tossed him just for cheating, as the other thing that you are not aware of is that humans are not monogomus we are not biologically programmed to be faithful to one person for life. Statistically you had almost the same chance of cheating as he did. It doesn't make sense that the result for a purely physical function on his part should have any consequence.
Age is mankind's greatest prejudice toward one another .
2006-11-04 17:07:06 · answer #2 · answered by crapemyrtleguy 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Honey, I have said the same things right here. And I know I will proabley never get another date in my life because I'm 56 and I have not had a date in over a year. I'm in pretty good physical condition, take care of myself and pretty confident about myself, but like you said older men seem to only be interested in older children.
2006-11-04 16:04:04 · answer #3 · answered by Ellen J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some of these men will be paying child support to some girl for the next 22 years! A lot of men don't realize they are being played. Best of luck to you! Sounds like you would be very attractive to a younger man. Go for it.
2006-11-04 16:00:37 · answer #4 · answered by whrldpz 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i never got into the whole highschool chick thing, but then again i slept through high school. i would have no problem being with an older woman, for one thing youre only as old as you feel, and the other, age dosent matter as long as the love is there. but i tend to look at the person, the soul, not the shell. i wish you the best of luck.
2006-11-04 16:00:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm 37 an I date woman younger, older and the same age it just depends on our mutual attraction. Has nothing to do with just age It's the person.
2006-11-04 15:58:06 · answer #6 · answered by Todd F 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes there are plenty of men out here that doesn't like nor want to be with young girls and I'm one of them,but..................if your all that like you say you are,why did your husband leave you?Sometimes it's the issues two people have that breaks them up,not because you think you look good or not.You may be cute,but you also sound vain.
2006-11-04 16:02:18 · answer #7 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I like women my age and older. They know what they want and dont play stupid head games of testing us (guys). They are decided on a lot of things and that is a turn on 4 me
2006-11-04 15:58:18 · answer #8 · answered by millertime06 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
email me i'm 38 and you sound great.my ex is with a younger guy who kept telling her what she wanted to hear.so it's not just guys
2006-11-04 15:58:40 · answer #9 · answered by Rob C 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-04 15:56:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋