h e l p ! ways i can tell the guy i like that i want a commitment:(?

Question

i like this guy, we r seein each other and i wanna commit 2 him, how shuld i bring it up?i dun wanna take it 2fast, or scare him, we're been only going out for about 1month almost, and if he cant commit to me i wanna move on and find bf that will commit to me and not waste my time on seeing sum1 and finding out later he was just a waste of time, i wanna be with him but i wanna commitment, wut can i say or do to give him a clue in wut i want for him and this realship, and i want a long term? h e l p :(

Answer 1

Guys tend to take a longer time to commit. They need more than a month. Perhaps he wants to commit too, but doesn't want to say anything. Watch the way he acts around you when you are alone and when you are with other people. If he remains the same when he is with you alone and with others, than perhaps he's wanting this to be long term as well. If you can't be patient than talk to him. Ask him how he feels about your relationship, and ask him to be honest. Has he ever committed before? That is perhaps the best way to know if he'll commit. If he's done it before than he can do it again. Don't throw your chance with him away to quickly, just give it alittle more time, and you will find your answers

Answer 2

Ask your mom about this! She may have had some experience in this situation! If that doesn't work ..... ah ha! Other adults will answer this question in a very wise way.

Answer 3

All you have to do is to tell him, what you reall feel for him, and tell him that you want a comittment, i know it'll be hard if he doesnt accept it. But remember that if he didnt accept it then he is not worth your time. You can do it. :)

Answer 4

the guy has already answered your question, either enjoy the moment or move on

Answer 5

A month? You're obviously very young. I don't know...maybe tell him you want to go "steady".