okay, so I had this best friend who was going out with this really hot guy, and he liked me. Then on Thursday we were passing notes. He said "I love you." after science, he broke up with his other gf to go out with me. Then last night at the football game, she was there, and my bf was there too. I went with my bf, and his ex-gf, tried to hit me? what should I do?
2006-11-04 15:40:19 · 17 answers · asked by Becky W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hit her back.. self defense is a constitutional right. just make sure u dont provoke her or anything it has to be her fault 100 % if she makes threats involve authorities.
2006-11-04 15:44:12 · answer #1 · answered by millertime06 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Dump the guy, save a friendship.
You're going to find that as your relationships progress, only a lucky few are worth losing a friend over. And this guy certainly doesn't sound like one of them.
Why?
HE LEFT YOUR FRIEND AT THE DROP OF A HAT!!! As soon as something he thought was better came along, he went for it. Honestly, what makes you think he wouldn't do the same to you?
And also, if he wrote that he loves you.... good God, that word gets thrown around a lot. If he hasn't been with you for several months at least, then he doesn't even know you. If he doesn't know you, then how the heck can he love you?
Dump this guy like he dumped your friend and make up with your friend. There will be plenty of other guys worth having out there and the good ones don't bounce around like that.
2006-11-04 23:45:46 · answer #2 · answered by uncletoon2005 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The same thing you did your ur ex-friend is going to be done you to.. and how can you even sit her claiming your any type of friend?? You don't even know what true friendship means.. now your going to be looking over your shoulder because ur DEAD WRONG!! No one is going to give you any good advice..You too young to even realize the long effect of your actions,, you need to treat people how you want to be treated and respected.
Your growing into a young adult start acting like it.
2006-11-04 23:45:26 · answer #3 · answered by M M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, if you really was her best friend then you should not go out with her boyfriend. in this case i would say it is a dilemma. either way you will loose one for another. as you already make a choice, keep going with the boy. keep in mind you just betrayed your best Friend's trust.
2006-11-04 23:46:17 · answer #4 · answered by lizie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stay away from your best friends ex no matter how hott he is. Because one you have a boyfriend and two she is your best friend! No one especially you should do that to her.
2006-11-04 23:43:27 · answer #5 · answered by I love Kevin Costner 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Stop going after your friends guy!! Friends will always be there, but guys will come and go. Grow up!!
2006-11-04 23:41:23 · answer #6 · answered by imasooite 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yeah, like someone else said. boys com eand go... girlfriends are MUCH longer and more supportive..... stick by them.
boys may be a good and strong temporary rush, but in reality... fake love.... friends...? true love.
2006-11-04 23:44:26 · answer #7 · answered by pondering 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Give him back.
Is a temporary relationship with a stupid guy worth losing your bf? I would think not.
2006-11-04 23:41:48 · answer #8 · answered by mar 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Get a new best friend by the sounds of it, you have blown this one
2006-11-04 23:43:07 · answer #9 · answered by graeme1944 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Pray that everything works out. Then pray for everyone involved, and let God handle it.
2006-11-04 23:51:09 · answer #10 · answered by elshay2 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋