Been single for a while, would love to love another, but what if I'm set in my ways, lost my mojo, or am just not that attractive? Any cool success stories out there?
2006-11-04 15:35:18 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
being set in your ways is one thing... If your looking to be with someone, you've got to comprimise yourself for him as he will with you. if you both don't, there's no point for either of you.
2006-11-04 15:39:54 · answer #1 · answered by Middlehitter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The key phrase is "set in my ways." Any loving relationship is a give/take. Unless you are willing to give up your set ways.........and her too....then no, a loving relationship will not work.
You can work on attractive, loose weight if necessary, pump some iron, get your hair (if any left) styled, dress nicely, carry yourself with confidence, etc and be interested in people. If you won't change, then don't bother launching the fishing boat. You won't be catching anything.
As for the mojo.....if there's some lightening between two people, some things can be jumped started again.
2006-11-04 23:40:34 · answer #2 · answered by fluffernut 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone is set in their ways after being single a long time. Success would depend on how willing each person is about setting aside their "ways" for the good of someone they love.
The first year is the toughest, as one adjusts to the loss of personal space and time and gets used to sharing.
The benefits are worth the sacrifice though.
2006-11-04 23:40:55 · answer #3 · answered by mar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being single for a long time does not mean you are not attractive. or that you lost it.. it was a choice you made and now that you are ready to love and be loved Go for it. I had a friend who was a priest and he was single for a,looooooooooong time but when he found the right now he went out of the seminary and married her and up to this time they are very happt togehter blessed with 3 kids... When you find love keep it...
2006-11-04 23:40:43 · answer #4 · answered by pinky c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is a sentiment based most of the time on passion. but that is not always the case. anything can happen. whether or not you believe in soul mate there is that one person out there somewhere, which is the right person for you. beside, being single does not mean there is something with you. you just have to make a move. sometimes, girls tend to be traditional so they want you to ask them out. if you don't someone else will. and when that happens you just so run out of luck.
2006-11-04 23:40:00 · answer #5 · answered by lizie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my man was single and only dated lasted no more than 2 months.he had a good job,finished school,nice car everything but was tired of the same girls.we met and have been together for 4 years, yes it is possible.handle your business and the right girl will come along.
2006-11-04 23:38:33 · answer #6 · answered by Amry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you can go from being single to being in a loving ,lasting relationship.
You just need the right gal :)
2006-11-04 23:37:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yea ive been there, it sux i know, but i have the best girl and we are workin on 2 years together, i love her more than anything. Yes it is possible, just be yourself, and have a good time. You will find someone, and it will be great.
2006-11-04 23:38:04 · answer #8 · answered by Don A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry couldnt help you on this one..But I dont believe in a guy losing his mojo. But i do believe the person meant for you is out there..So start looking for her.
2006-11-04 23:43:50 · answer #9 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter how long you have been single. When the right person comes along, you will want to compromise with her.
2006-11-04 23:37:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anne B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋