honestly man OK... heres what happended this sounds so dumb but anywayz i asked my mom politely if she get me my lotion b/c she she uses it more and often takes it to another room, Well she just hands me this cheap lotion that i know smells like crap, and i gently hand it back to her. She ends up not catching the lotion and it thuds on the floor, only issue is it looks like to her i purposely did that! so she picks up the lotions and throws it pretty hard(hello i have a bruise) on my shoulder. next thing i no she says "because of what you did you know have lost all your previleges." she hasnt started PMSing i don' t think, but what on earth is going on with her! I probably sound like im going off the wall about this and that im so ignorant selfish brat who doesnt seem to appreciate my mom but i'm just wondering what i did wrong.
2006-11-04 15:35:09 · 8 answers · asked by Ghetto Asian Pride 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
you don't deserve that. just talk to her. apologize for it falling but tell her you didn't mean to do it. and in the future, get better at dodging. that's what i did. but if she was doing it with intentions to harm you like that then you should talk to a school counselor. No child deserves beatings ever. no matter what. maybe she's got other things going on in her life right now and even the smallest things set her off. so maybe ask her if everything's going ok. if not then just step lightly around her so as to not upset her. sometimes you have to take into consideration that parents have more going on than just their kids.
2006-11-04 15:40:19 · answer #1 · answered by Rachel D 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, your mom suffers from a problem that all mothers suffer from. She's a woman. I don't know why, but my mother was the same way. Sometimes even the smallest thing would set her off.
Just remember this, you get kinda pissy sometimes i'm sure. We all do. Your mother is no exception to this. Even if she's not pmsing, she could still be suffering from lack of sleep, lack of nutrients, tension from a pressure front, allergies, or maybe she took a look at her finances lately and wasn't happy with what she saw so she especially didn't appreciate that you wouldn't be ready to make do.
Just let it blow over your shoulder. People, regardless of who they are, have occasional mood swings. If she's put up with yours, i hope you can put up with a few out of her.
2006-11-04 23:40:49 · answer #2 · answered by uncletoon2005 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
when things simmer down between you and your mother sit down with her and ask her why she got so harsh about the lotion
and show her the bruise .maybe she didn't mean for it to hit you as hard as it did,could be she took you the wrong way when you questioned about the lotion.it doesn't get resolved fighting over it both need to talk it out calmly.tell her how you feel and you weren't trying to act as a spoiled brat and you didn't mean to come across as being selfish as well.
best of luck
2006-11-04 23:44:54 · answer #3 · answered by smiley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like nothing, but we aren't seeing it from her side. Sit her down and tell her you are confused about what you did wrong. Maybe she can shed light on it and even be more calm about it. But talk - always talk things out.
Not - if she is older - like 45 up, it could be perimenopause. I was an absolute emotional mess during that time. It was like PMS every day for a few years - miserable.
2006-11-04 23:42:38 · answer #4 · answered by chris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your Mom was just having a bad day. Only hearing one side of the story,it does sound like she is over reacting.
2006-11-04 23:42:42 · answer #5 · answered by whataboutme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did nothing wrong. It seems to me that your mother has anger management issues if she blows up at a little thing like that. For next time, buy your own lotion if you can and keep it in your own room.
2006-11-04 23:38:33 · answer #6 · answered by Blue Jean 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
my mom sometimes takes things way too seriously..like she always thinks i do things in a sassy bitchy way....but i guess shes never done anything to bruise me or hurt me physically....hm..tough....tell her that u dont mean it negatively...u just tried to give it back to her politely..but..maybe in her perspective..it wasnt as polite as u meant it 2 be..
2006-11-04 23:46:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like nothing. wait till she calms down and then tell her your side of the story hopefully she will listen.
2006-11-04 23:39:09 · answer #8 · answered by dreson k 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋