He wets the bed, nightly.
He has very obnoxious temper tantrums.(kicks and throws)
He cries and screams cuz he doesn't want to do homework.
He calls his dad names and cusses him.
He calls step mom names and cusses her in defiance.
He gets XXXXX on the toliet.
He spills food everywhere when he eats....and stains his face.
He throw clothes and towels all over his room and bathroom.
He breaks/destroys things/too;s/games/bikes in order to get a new replacement.
He is defiant.
He argues with adults and gets mad and says shuthehellup.
He won't get ready for school in the morning...often late.
He drinks out of the milk carton and juice bottle we all use.
He throws trash on the floor.
He won't brush his teeth.
He never walks in the house; always stomps or runs.
I think the boy needs medical help but the dad says boy's behavior is all my fault.
2006-11-04 15:32:25 · 18 answers · asked by Rosee 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
Sounds like a typical 9 to 12 year old that needs rules and guidelines to follow with punishment to match the crimes.
Maybe a few prescribed drugs from the family doctor wouldn't hurt either.
Should be in room reading books with no TV, No Games, Etc...
And as for your husband, You need to slap his face and tell him to wake the hell up. No offense, But he sounds like an asshole to me
2006-11-04 15:41:45 · answer #1 · answered by myothernewname 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
5
2006-11-04 23:34:19 · answer #2 · answered by jeff 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like he has a anger problem. My step brother did the exact same things and so did my cousin but the diffrence between my cousin and step bro is that my step bro just had a anger problem and needed help where my cousin was abused by his dad but once he stopped seeing his dad and got some help he was a little angel.
I do not know what to say it is, my guess is he is either being abused or he has a anger problem, his parents need to get him help.
2006-11-04 23:56:30 · answer #3 · answered by Diamonds_Glow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
9... it sounds like whatever age he is he needs to learn a little respect. it could very well be a behavioural issue/psychological. Take him to a DR and see what they say. Or else counselling of some sort. it will only get worse if nothing is done.Blaming otheres of childrens problems solves nothing, get to the root of the problem to help....even if it is you fault or the father's help it doesn't do any good to point fingers and argue over whose fault it is. Think of the boy!
2006-11-04 23:39:22 · answer #4 · answered by cherhub 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds very much like my son before he was diagnosed with ADHD and Oppositional Defiant Disorder. Since he was put on medication at 7, behavior modification and counseling...we don't see much of this behavior anymore. I think this child really needs to see a professional to help sort out why he is behaving this way...I do not think this is "all your fault", sounds like dad is in denial and looking for someone to blame.
2006-11-04 23:38:33 · answer #5 · answered by **KELLEY** 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
10-14. He sounds like a combination between my brother growing up, and my friend's brother. And yeah, he needs some help. I'm not sure if he needs medical help, but definitely some discipline of some sort or another. I don't care who you are or what you have, that is not acceptable behavior.
2006-11-05 00:11:42 · answer #6 · answered by yama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gee could be any age boy if you ask me. The only think that I think you should be concerned about if he is over the age of about 7 is the bed wetting. Maybe family counseling would do you all some good.
2006-11-04 23:41:34 · answer #7 · answered by averyanne77 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would guess 13? only bcuz a 5 yr old wouldnt be able to drink out of a carton in the fridge and says shut the hell up. also to get your point across his behavior is child like.
2006-11-04 23:41:32 · answer #8 · answered by littlemiss-sunshine 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
6 or 7 year old
2006-11-04 23:36:16 · answer #9 · answered by Sakora 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a troubled 5 year old
2006-11-04 23:35:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋