I dont like being alone I think ive tried like everything to get my mind off of the lonelyness. I need to know if there are other people out there with the same problem as me. Is it abnormal to have "lonely-phobia"?
2006-11-04 15:25:43 · 15 answers · asked by Kandi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think periods of loneliness are pretty normal. It is best if you can find some place to volunteer some time or develop a new hobby that involves people. These things can help you think about other things. If the loneliness has turned to depression your doctor should be able to help you.
2006-11-04 15:28:06 · answer #1 · answered by mar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its normal to feel this way.I would think that after ending any relationship a person should take some time to think about how they have changed and what they learned from the previous partner.Its healthy to take time and get to know what makes you who you are before beginning another relationship.Maybe by taking this time alone you can set some goals or set new standards as to what you are looking for and where you want to be.
2006-11-04 23:37:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is absolutely normal..... We all thrive on attention now don't we?
It's all part of living and growing. I used to get into a relationship immediately after a break-up, because I could not be by myself. I've been single now for almost 3 years & actually enjoying it for the most part. (still have those times of the wooo-mes). It isnt easy, but you can find some peace in it.
Best of wishes, & don't get discouraged!
2006-11-04 23:44:04 · answer #3 · answered by dance.smile 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal...I guess, I haven't had a girl in 1 year and some change, and I feel kinda sad whenever I see a couple together, but you might as well get on with life, and search for better things. Good luck finding a man & God Bless you.
2006-11-04 23:29:16 · answer #4 · answered by Tar Heel 4 Life 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am single too and believe me u won't get it at the time u want it the most. my advice to u is to just hand there. no one need a bf u want one. if u r looking for love or watever is it, it will find u watever u r.
go out with friends if u have one or just go out by urself to the movie or shopping or do wat u love to do. it can get lonely at first, and believe me before u know it, u will love urself and enjoy urself so much, that there will be the time boys will be around u when u realize u still want a man in your live but at the same, u don't really need them anymore. b/c u get use to urself and love urself.
don't want a boy so bad that u won't get to know them and get hurt.
do things by urself, it could be lonely at first but it will be helpfull and if u feel long again in live, u will learn to please urself.
boys, when u want them, u won't get wat to want from them AND when u said i am single and loving it and i don't want a bf now and that will be the time u will have so much that u will have to choose.
i hope this can help
experienced, it look like it time for u to love urself first, b/c we go through this. do u and it come to u watever u will be, love happen anyhwere anytime, so do u first.
2006-11-05 08:39:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not the only person who is like that. I had a friend she is like that, that is something you may have to learn to cope with on your own. I am not sure if there is a such thing as lonely-phobia though
2006-11-04 23:30:01 · answer #6 · answered by Jazzy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you will have to get over it before you can have a good relationship, but no, it's not abnormal. Just be good to yourself and true to yourself and the right person will come along.
2006-11-04 23:30:32 · answer #7 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not alone......I feel like that always. Sometimes it's hurts so bad I cry. I just want someone to be with that I can call my lover, my partner, and most of all my friend. Hang in there.
2006-11-04 23:28:16 · answer #8 · answered by cold runner 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not alone, the best thing you should do is keep yourself busy,get involved with work,school or family and friends more.sign up for a gym or take extra classes.good luck
2006-11-04 23:29:41 · answer #9 · answered by Amry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been single for quite some time and am loving it. I have more freedom, I can go out when I want, have fun with different chicks, etc.
2006-11-04 23:35:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋