I was just wondering...**Can girls be the one to ask out guys or is it just like some unwritten rule that guys have to be the one to ask the girls out. Tell me what you think... opinions from girls and guys would be great!. If you are a girl who had an experience of asking out a guy that you liked- please tell me how it went- good or bad. And also tyell me anymore thoughts or advice you have. Thanks so much in advance!!
(Serious answerers ONLY!) Thanks! =)
2006-11-04 14:25:45 · 41 answers · asked by girl 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sure, why not? Go for it! Just ask him if he's busy on ___ night, and if he'd like to go eat at ___ ?
2006-11-04 14:27:06 · answer #1 · answered by DumBlonD 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
People have very mixed feelings on this. Realize that if you ask someone on a date, particularly a first date, you should be prepared to pay for the whole thing without it getting awkward.
I asked a couple of guys out in high school, and they were thrilled, and I split with them because they turned out not to be assertive enough. I've found, as an adult, that I enjoy the company more of men who do the asking. But that's probably just a personal preference. I will ask for the second date, though, and then I pay. It has worked very well.
2006-11-04 14:31:42 · answer #2 · answered by Singinganddancing 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If U ask a guy out he'll C U as strong, independent and confident. If U really like a boy but he turns out 2 b 2 shy 2 ask U out, then U've missed out on a chance 2 know if it could have worked out. Y wait 4 some one 2 make you happy, find it urself & go 4 it!!
2006-11-04 14:36:09 · answer #3 · answered by ♥less 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is probably a Knack to this, but it back-fired on me big time!! I liked a guy at church something bad and was dying for him to ask me out. He was giving me all the signals but was not saying anything. Then, I asked him out for a coffee and he said a big fat "NO".
I was crushed. When I met another guy a few years later, he asked if he would like to be friends with me. I said, fine.
Well, we are still best friends and he is my hubby now for almost 10 years.
I think it's ok for a girl to ask a guy out but it didn't work for me,
Incendentally, that guy I was talking about married a girl and now they are divorced so I am glad he turned me down.
I think you have to be brave and prepare yourself for rejection if the guy dosn't like the idea of you asking him out or maybe he is too shy and dying for you to ask him out.
Good luck!!!
2006-11-04 14:32:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i bet guys would LOVE it if we made the first move once in a while. but i guess it's just what the rule is =O)
but um..yeah. advice on what? asking out guys? just ask him to go with you and a bunch of your friends to the movies or something. and maybe ask him to bring anyone he wants (so he doesn't feel so akward). then if ya'll have a good time, you'll have an excuse to go again. like "last nite was so fun..we should both go again sometime". WINK WINK. lol. good luck =O)
2006-11-04 14:28:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah a lot of girls are doing that these days heck more than 50% of girls are proposing to their boyfriends so asking out can't be THAT bad! GO for it make the first move and show your guy you're not afraid to make the first move!
2006-11-04 14:27:50 · answer #6 · answered by amagaldi_star 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that girls can absolutely ask a guy out. It is just you taking the first step and not just sitting around waiting for the guy to ask you.
2006-11-09 15:16:58 · answer #7 · answered by daydreamer862005 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If guys always had to ask girls half the girls wouldn't have a boyfriend cause most guys are reall actually very shy
2006-11-04 14:29:32 · answer #8 · answered by rachie girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think its okay to ask out a guy, but you have to be prepared to pay, or have that established beforehand.
No, I never asked out a guy, it wasn't done "back then."
My daughter did, and the guy turned her down. She was okay with it, and he was super nice about it. Then she did it again with another guy - and they have been married a year now!! So it worked
2006-11-04 14:28:30 · answer #9 · answered by chris 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course girls can ask someone out, if they llike them enough, of course. I was never the person to ask a guy out, but if I happened to like a guy enough (and I knew for a fact he was single), then sure I'd ask him. Good luck. ;)
2006-11-04 14:28:07 · answer #10 · answered by too funny 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In this crazy modern world yes if you like a boy ask him out its just a date your not proposing to him.He can only say yes or no that is his choice .But go somewhere public so no sex is involved
2006-11-04 14:32:49 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋