okay well i used to like this guy big time.,.... but now peolpe are trying to set me up with him and i think he likes me back ... but i completely find him unattractive now! i really really dont like him at all. he is a year older than me .... and since he may ask me out im gonna have to turn down a person almost 2 years older! i dont think i can do that to a person becuase it would be so embarrassing. what should i do?
2006-11-04 14:18:09 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Been there done that. Hey if he's older don't feel intimidated sure he'll look like a fool but if you don't like him there's no point in going out with him. Just tell him your feelings have changed and he's a year to late. Maybe next time he likes a girl he'll make a faster move. Don't be afraid to hurt his feelings it's your relationship and if you don't want it turn him down!
2006-11-04 14:20:23 · answer #1 · answered by amagaldi_star 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If ur not attractive to him, then don't date him. It may be embarrassing to him, but trust it won't be the first or last time that this will happen to him. Don't ever date someone u don't like to spare emotions at the time, because in the long run it could wind up hurting even more than telling him no to begin with.
2006-11-04 14:23:49 · answer #2 · answered by Alternative Chick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find you another guy and start going out with him before he ask u out or ignore him so he'll think u don't like him anymore
2006-11-04 14:21:09 · answer #3 · answered by SAI 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if i was you and i rilly didnt want to upset him i would say"you are a little 2 old 4 me "
2006-11-04 14:23:05 · answer #4 · answered by brittany l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him a chance. who knows you might find out he's perfect.
2006-11-04 14:23:10 · answer #5 · answered by Blue Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋