as long as there is time, i'm free and he's free, i want us to meet. but he doesn't want us to meet very often. 'cause accdg to him, it's a bore that lovers meet very often. he said he wanted to miss me. but i miss him everyday. but because he doesnt want us to meet as often as i want, i hav adjusted myself not to expect of seeing him no matter how i want to. i dont even txt him evry hour anymore. though it crashes my chest in this situation, but i think this could be the way to make him miss me more. any other ways you can advice me to do to make him crave for me?
2006-11-04 14:10:36 · 10 answers · asked by liez 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This guy wants his space. He doesn't want to be in the middle of an outing with friends and have to stop to answer your texts every hour to tell you how much he is missing you too when he's not. Give him a little space for a while, don't text, don't call, don't email, don't randomly show up where he is. Let him approach you. He will grow to miss you! Right now, you're not giving him the time to miss you. In time, he will!
2006-11-04 14:14:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might not want to meet very often cause he doesn't like a clingy feeling. I would say at least 2 or 3 times a week. I usually feel the same way, when my bf wants to spend every last moment with me. It is nice and all but it sometimes feel smothering.
2006-11-04 14:17:34 · answer #2 · answered by Alternative Chick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he feels smothered. Lay off a little. If you have an urge to send a text message, message your friend. Don't make him the center of your universe. Things happen and you may not be with him for the rest of your life. Not saying that he'll leave you... but what if something happens and he has to move far away. Make YOU the number one priority in life. Make sure you can take care of yourself and live for yourself. Take care of yourself before you take care of anyone else. Sounds like you like him more than he likes you. That can change so don't worry. But he needs space just as you do.
2006-11-04 14:15:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be really distant if he feels that he's not getting your full attention he'll want it more. The more he wants your attention the more he'll start checking on you. If that doesn't work he's probably not as interested in you as you are in him in which case you should probably start looking for someone else who will share the same type of interest in you as you do in them.
2006-11-04 14:13:38 · answer #4 · answered by amagaldi_star 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ive been there, and in my opinion, i aslo dont want to see my boyfriend often. Its not because i dont love him, i just want sometime with my friends and my family and myself. And it makes your relataionship stronger. Believe me ---we're now on our 3rd year :)
2006-11-04 14:17:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sound like he has a wife or a girl firiend that 's why he want to meet less....
2006-11-04 14:16:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i figure you just meet them once.. unless ya got more than one
2006-11-04 14:12:27 · answer #7 · answered by bob b 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he's probley missing around with other girls
2006-11-04 14:17:45 · answer #8 · answered by SAI 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him what you told me
2006-11-04 14:12:20 · answer #9 · answered by dani 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋