Right i broke up with my ex 5 months ago although i still like him....we are still friends....so about 2 months after we broke up he gave me a ticket to go watch a concert with him...its this monday...i wasnt sure if he wanted to still go with me or not so i asked him if i could buy it off him....so i could take one of my friends he said "why do u not want me to come" i said well its up to you, you gave me the ticket he replied "your making me feel very unwelcome, who are you going with?" i said it was just a friend, what did he expect me to say, he hasnt mentioned it since and neither have I. he did say he wants to go but there was not mention of where and when we should meet. Should i text him or wait untill he does...but i dont want to leave it too late!! answers appreciated thanks. (he still has his ticket and I have mine, but please don't tell me to go alone!)
2006-11-04 14:06:48 · 22 answers · asked by hunybuny 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thank you all for people who have answered so far, id just like to add...he knew i wanted to go see the concert and kinda gave it to me as a birthday present, i think im gonna say sorry for the way i reacted towards him and then just ask so whats happening....im still not sure though lol i know he is with someone else so it wont be that kinda hook up its just to exs going out to enjoy eachothers company although i do still like him i know it can be nothing more!! please add further comments if u want, thanks x
2006-11-04 14:39:13 · update #1
we broke up on good terms mutual agreement I spose although it just wasnt working out between us I did want to try again but he was the one that said no, if anyone giving false hope its him not me lol although i dont wanna be with him but i do still like/love him, but i really really want to go to this concert lol with him because he was the one that gave it to me
2006-11-04 14:42:47 · update #2
talk to him.
2006-11-04 14:09:44 · answer #1 · answered by nameisie90 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
This is a tough situation. I wouldn't have accepted the ticket, given you'd already broken up.
If you're uncomfortable why don't you offer/give him the ticket back so he can take someone else? That's a reasonable solution. Especially if you tell him if he doesn't take the ticket, he'll be sitting next to an empty seat.
I broke up with a boyfriend about 4 weeks before my birthday, never expecting he'd have gotten me anything. Turns out he got Indigo Girls tickets (one of my very favorite groups, and it was a number of years ago when they were very big). He gave them both to me. I tried to give them back, since I broke up with him, I didn't feel comfortable, but he refused to accept them. He didn't make much money, so I knew it was a big gift. I felt too bad to go so I gave them to a couple of young lesbian coworkers, and they were thrilled.
These things are seldom solved elegantly. Oh well!
2006-11-04 22:12:33 · answer #2 · answered by Singinganddancing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What was the reason for your break up? Normally you would like the Guy cause at one time you liked him and could give all of yourself to him. If you want to go with Him it will be fine but if you think even a little bit on the negative side then do not go.Make a firm decision if you want to be with him or not. If not then make a clean break and do not go.He must have given you the ticket cause he knows you would like to go to the Concert. Get a refund of the ticket and give the money back to him
2006-11-04 22:19:13 · answer #3 · answered by R C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if uv broken up and are still in touch its somethin to think about.. looks like he is still not over u and so are u... so if u think u really want 2 get back to him or just spend sometime with him then do it he gave u the ticket go with him. But if u do not want to get back to him then i wud say dont waste time find someone else or just go out with ur frnds....
2006-11-05 03:31:11 · answer #4 · answered by cecilia b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, just go. Have fun. See if he ACTS like its a date. If he does, then ask him if he wants to get back with you, and if he's dating anyone. If he treats you like a mate, then just go along with it. Otherwise you might ruin the friendship. Just continue to go places with him as friends. He might come around, he might not.
Or, if you are the bold sort of girl (i.e. opposite of me), then you could just bluntly tell him how you feel (AFTER finding out if he has a gf). Because, really? Its not really a friendship when one of you wants more.
2006-11-05 02:35:28 · answer #5 · answered by Smo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not interested in him then give him the ticket back and stop giving him false hope. If you are interested in him then stop playing games and just tell him. Either way, go for honest and definitive.
2006-11-04 22:19:45 · answer #6 · answered by Medic123456789 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He gave u the ticket... he wanted U 2 go with him... what's the problem?
2006-11-04 22:12:20 · answer #7 · answered by WIDE OUTxx0017 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would phone him and tell him that you actually didn't have anyone in mind to go with other than him, tell the truth, what harm can it do? Good luck either way, Go either way, I have been all over the place on my own,lol, and I have ben happily married for over 30 years.
2006-11-08 18:12:52 · answer #8 · answered by linda_corby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he's probably mad and feels hurt b/c you rather go with someone else. He did give you the ticket so of course he wants you to go with him. He's probably waiting for you to make a move since you made him mad and he doesn't want to give away his tickets. I say you should text him, apologize, and make plans to go with him since he INVITED YOU!!!!
2006-11-04 22:16:32 · answer #9 · answered by truth hurts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have your ticket. Presumably, hundreds or even thousands of other people also have theirs. You are not going to co-ordinate with / wait for all of them to meet you, are you?
Go to the concert. If he's there in the seat next to yours, fine. If not, fine too. Enjoy the concert.
2006-11-04 22:11:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
text the guy and tell him that you want to go with him. he's probably thinking that you are wanting to take some other guy because that is the way that you are making it sound. he needs to know that you want to go with him. he gave you the ticket because he wants to go with you, you could at least return the favor.
2006-11-04 22:10:25 · answer #11 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋