my girlfriend keeps telling me that lots of guys are telling her to tell them when we break up. she keeps reasuring me that she really doesnt want to break up with me but it really makes me i suppose jealous because she always hugs like everybody and says she has heaps of guys that are good friends to her.
2006-11-04 14:04:27 · 9 answers · asked by Low J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she can have guy friends, theres nothing wrong with that
2006-11-04 14:07:29 · answer #1 · answered by drummer boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't want to sound like I'm preaching... I would feel jealous, but envy is one of the seven deadly sins. There must be a reason why she is friends with "heaps of guys." You should do what you think/know is right. But then again maybe she is a nice person. Maybe she embraces these guys whom she hugs with the understanding that they are just friends.
However, just because she hugs people doesn't mean that you and she are going to get married, so just remember that you and she aren't a married couple. She doesn't have to be exclusive with you and hug only you. She should not, however, be having sex with any guy (or girl) before she gets married and neither should you. Save your virginity for your future wife.
2006-11-04 22:13:09 · answer #2 · answered by mlev_1185 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy will be your downfall. She may just be a big flirt but if she really says she's going to stay with you, then you have nothing to worry about. If you guys do break up though over jealousy because she feels like you're smothering her then you will REALLY regret it. So try to let it go and you never know maybe she IS trying to make her jealous. Do you have a lot of girl friends she might be jealous of?? Just a thought.
2006-11-04 22:08:13 · answer #3 · answered by amagaldi_star 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok i know how you feel my boyfriend is the same way he always hugs girls and they tell him when we brake up but he says that they are jsut good friends i meen i am not ok with this so i said something and what i said was that i love you very much and i don't want to brake up with you but this stuff with the girls are not flying with me and i talked to the girls and they stopped well hoped me advised works good luck!!!!!!!!!!!!~~~~~
2006-11-04 22:09:51 · answer #4 · answered by marissa s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let her fool you.
Girls with lots of guy friends are sluts, and keep many of them around for special things.
For instance:
She will keep one guy around for movies.
and another for food,
and yet another to just hang out and chill,
but be asured that if you are not sleeping with her...
she is sleeping with one of them.
My advice is to dump her as soon as possible and find
a faithful woman.
P.S> if you are naive enough to think im not telling the truth, you deserve everything you don't get from her, such as reciprocation of your love.
2006-11-04 22:09:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sure has tickets on herself and sorry but her saying that to you is a cheap low down shot that does not give you any confidence
2006-11-04 22:08:00 · answer #6 · answered by blue_eyed_woman_of_3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think shes just trying to make you jealous. actually she's probably has a little self esteam issue and that makes her feel better...just act like it doesnt bother you and she'll probably stop
2006-11-04 22:08:59 · answer #7 · answered by ANGIE W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's just friendly but unless a hugs her from behind and she doesnt pull away fast or she does but smiles she's not only interested in you.
2006-11-04 22:08:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u feel that badly maybe its not ment 2 b or maybe u should talk 2 her
2006-11-04 22:07:43 · answer #9 · answered by princessinwaiting012 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋