ive had poor dates, and 2 pittiful relationships,i think im going to give dating a rest i want a husband im not dating material, i go to church and pray for a good future and a good man i will wait i guess
2006-11-04 13:49:50 · 16 answers · asked by constance b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Here I am! I have all the characteristics that I didn't when I was young and dumb. Now I'm mature and wise and young enough to still have a family. This time I know what I want in a relationship and I know how to listen and share in what my woman wants from me and our relationship. Young guys r fools they don't know when they have a good thing, u sound great I too am more God fearing these days. Write to me click on my avatar, who knows we might be God sent for each other, no promises or frills just notes.
2006-11-04 14:02:56 · answer #1 · answered by papabeartex 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you've planned; take a break. And next time you feel like getting involved, but sure of what you want in a mate, and don't settle for less. Break old patterns of picking the wrong man. You CAN do better, and there ARE great guys out there. No one is perfect, but there are guys who come pretty close.
How do I know this for a fact? I didn't meet my husband until I was 27 and about to give up on love. It took me three months before I believed that he was actually for real ... I'd had a lot of terrible relationships. Tragically, he was killed by a drunk driver when our daughter was one year old - but I'm so grateful for every second we had together. He restored my faith in human nature.
2006-11-04 13:57:01 · answer #2 · answered by Bad Kitty! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are on your own pitty potty and need to take a long hard look at yourself. Would you want to date you? Take some time off and do something for you, get in shape, a facial, maybe take a evening class. All these places are great to meet new people and take your mind off marriage and not being marriage material. When your on top of your game and love yourself they will beat the door down.
2006-11-04 13:53:37 · answer #3 · answered by wisehahn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No dont give up, never give up. Just stop looking if you are, let someone come to you. Get to know him better and take time and sit back and observe all the things he do and say that make you happy and mad. Oh and if the happy out weight the mad hes a keeper. Then go home and see if you are still thinking about him everytime you look up, or any time you are alone. If you are hes really a keeper. JUST DONT GIVE UP..... Good Luck!!
2006-11-04 14:04:21 · answer #4 · answered by Lauren 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All i'm able to enable you to comprehend is my journey. i attempted to reconcile with my ex a pair of twelve months after our divorce and it replaced right into a disaster. the 1st couple of months have been stable and then it replaced into consistent harassment appropriate to the comparable previous issues and extra. i replaced into in no way untrue as quickly as we've been married, yet i could in no way stay down the undeniable fact that I dated after our divorce. He ought to no longer get previous that. i think of we stayed mutually for 6 months and that replaced into the best financial disaster. i'm lots happier without him. regrettably for him, no longer something in his existence has replaced. He nonetheless is an extremely offended, bitter guy or woman and thinks he's a sufferer of the international. do no longer waste to any extent further time. existence is only too short and in case you have reached this element, i think of it somewhat is what may be called "the element of no return". via how, we were married for 17 years. Please do no longer waste yet another effective day on him!
2016-10-21 06:57:47 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it is hard for me to believe people will pass up good girls.
There are plenty of guys like me out there looking for a wife material. There are plenty of us out there just hope to have a significant other to share every moment of live there after.
I guess you do show that there are good girls out there.
Let's put it this way, don't give up just be more selective. BTW, you are still so young.
Good luck!
2006-11-04 13:54:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest, you need to work on you and not worry about anyone else. Work on being happy alone, then someone will come into your life and add to it. Don't look at every male as a potential husband. Just work on friendships right now. You never know what you might find.
2006-11-04 13:52:47 · answer #7 · answered by Shawn 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take the time to reaquaint yourself with yourself.
Learn to love your self and figure out your good qualities and before you know it your self-confidence should be in better shape and then you will get the attention you deserve, but you need to believe you deserve all that good attention.
Also, watch for sign of guys that are not good types for you.
2006-11-04 13:54:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give up I sure that there is a special person for you. I've been divorced twice and at 58 finally found the love of my life. Its always possible.
2006-11-04 13:55:35 · answer #9 · answered by teddybear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
spend some time for yourself. focus on making friends because if you arent sure you are ready for dating then it always helps to have friends just incase. the best relationships start from friendship. you also need to feel good about yourself and be confident and then more people will be attracted to you.
2006-11-04 13:55:18 · answer #10 · answered by poisongirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋