my bf is so emotional he is always tellin me he cares n wont cheat on me n dont want any1 eles n that he wants to marry me it is startin to get annoyin cuz on top of it he wants to talk on phone 24-7 n we never talk about anything eles exept 4 how much he cares n all that stuff . so how can get him to chill out on talkin bout that stuff even after told him that he should chill out twice n he said he would n hes not?
2006-11-04 13:36:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like he's just feeling insecure and wants to know that you are "in to him" and like him and that he "meets your approval". Basically, you just need to convince him that you like him and believe him. And if he keeps on, tell him that you understand what he's saying. Ask him why he keeps telling you the same thing over and over when you already believe him. Tell him the more he tells you that stuff, the more you start to wonder if it's true.
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2006-11-04 13:41:51 · answer #1 · answered by Jenn 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Let him know u got his message and u know he loves u. But u need to tell him it makes u uncomfortable to have him repeat himself so much that it's making u wonder whether he trying to convince u or himself by saying it so much. And as for the phone calls limit him to once a day, at night time preferably near bed time, unless it is really important them he can call u. Absolutely no calls at work or school unless again an emergency. If he continues to cross hee borders u have a compulsive obsessive type that u would be better off without and then again u should nip it in the bud before it is too late. LOL good luck!
2006-11-04 13:47:56 · answer #2 · answered by papabeartex 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him again! If he REALLY does care about how you feel than he will cool it. If not tell him something drastic like your going to take a break from the relationship because of the feelings of disatisfaction you are having about him. It's okay to make threats as long as you do whats right for you. I really think he does Love you but if it is irritating to you then maybe you need to think about how you really feel.
2006-11-04 13:58:25 · answer #3 · answered by stuffy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you are not ready for that kind of serious relationship. Or tell him that you still want to be want to him but to know if you want that kind of serious relationship that you need to talk about something other than how much he cares about you. You need to tell him no matter what you do and do it gently because he seems to be sensitive.
2006-11-04 13:48:42 · answer #4 · answered by meme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably really loves you and is afraid that you will leave him. Tell him that you're not ready for this commitment. Keep in touch with him, and while on the phone, try to start new topics, like gossip. I hope this works.
P.S: Remind him that you love him.
2006-11-04 13:42:35 · answer #5 · answered by Lolaaaa! 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds to me like he is insecure about himself as well as your relationship with him. He needs to find another girl who is more suited to his needs and you need to find a guy that is more suited to yours. I would have to say that you both are still young and inexperienced in live and need to find yourselves before thinking about a serious relationship. It might be best if you split up with him.
2006-11-04 13:56:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to slow down a little
2006-11-04 13:40:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to grow some balls.
2006-11-04 13:39:50 · answer #8 · answered by PS 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋