I've only dated my b-friend for a 1.5 years but our sex life is pretty lame. I never feel wanted and I always have to coax him into actually having sex with me. I used to have to fight my ex off with a stick and that's what i want with my current guy. I can't live this way much longer let alone forever. I need some love!. ps. i have not gained weight or changed my appearance in any way.
2006-11-04 13:31:06 · 12 answers · asked by jay-z8900 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thanks so much for your answers. many are right. and i have tried talking to him about it more than once. that's why i'm starting to think it's time to go
2006-11-04 13:56:12 · update #1
End the relationship. You can be just as miserable by yourself. Don't waste your time with someone you have to "coax" into loving you. Good luck chica!
2006-11-04 13:34:40 · answer #1 · answered by sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say it is over and time to move on. When u have to coax a guy to have sex that is pretty much the end. I would say goodbye and find someone who u dont have to coax
2006-11-04 21:34:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him. I believe things are easier when you talk them through and give that person the awareness of the situation so they an have a chance to tell you what they think. That way you can me the best decision for the both of you now that you would know their feelings about the situation. Then you would have no regrets.
2006-11-04 21:37:46 · answer #3 · answered by Athena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once the fire has gone out, there are only the dying embers of what once was.
Trying to stoke a fire that is cold is futile.
Leave as friends and move on.
2006-11-04 21:43:22 · answer #4 · answered by Mark 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all at least u got alook at both sides of men.
now you have to find one in the middle.
sorry apparently he is not interested in you anymore they can lie but its the truth.
its like you walking into the room with lingere on and he rolls over and falls asleep
2006-11-04 21:35:15 · answer #5 · answered by cbr_honda_girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell either he gets on the ball and starts putting out or its over... maybe bring a friend over for him and you to have some fun with??? spice the sex life up yourself... if you wait for him you will dry up before the months end for sure!!!!!!
2006-11-04 21:34:34 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. Enjoy the single life.
2006-11-04 21:33:54 · answer #7 · answered by Lexy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is too short. Obviously this is not the man for you. Move on.
2006-11-04 21:35:14 · answer #8 · answered by Pat C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, tell him just what you wrote here - that the spark is gone and you want to move on.
2006-11-04 21:33:02 · answer #9 · answered by chris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and tell him how you feel. Some guys sometimes tend to slack off because we dont tell them what we want and what we need. :-)
2006-11-04 21:33:56 · answer #10 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋